@neurodivinityxo: I've kind of had to accept that actively trying to be "like other girls" is pointless and I should just be myself. i only use the word cis to acknowledge privilege, it's not a word I've ever identified with much. because who actually identifies completely with society's gender roles? I'm not proud to be a woman because I looooove gender roles and I love pink and I love being elegant and demure. I'm proud to be a woman because I'm proud to be me and I happen to be a woman. I'm not proud to be a cis woman I'm proud to be a WOMAN somewhere completely separate to the TERF ideal that being a women means having xx chromosomes and carries no emotional or aesthetic or spiritual or mental component to it at all, and the patriarchal ideal that being a woman means being stereotypically feminine, is where I live and it's a fucking vibe. I'm just myselffffffffff I love being me 😛 #autisminwomen #autism #actuallyautistic #autistiktok
There's actually a concept called autigender— it's not autism AS a gender, but it's a unique experience of gender identity experienced by some autistic ppl
2025-04-28 21:57:59
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madeline :
forever thinking about that tumblr post that went something like “im she/her as in the way you refer to a boat”
2025-04-28 20:56:38
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xanam___ :
Tbh I think once you deconstruct societal norms, gender becomes an accessory. It feels like being a fan of a football team, there’s a sense of belonging, but its just rooted in familiarity.
2025-04-28 18:27:25
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whi_sperr :
Found out about agender and gender apathetic and called it a day
2025-04-28 16:36:18
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Kat :
I am woman by default. I'm not trans but my attitude towards gender is "meh, I guess."
2025-04-29 01:45:14
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Maxi :
i wish i could exist outside of gender 😭
2025-04-28 18:08:19
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bluntmonster :
I think being autistic is an inherently dysphoric experience because no one, or almost no one sees us accurately. Not like we see ourselves.
2025-04-29 00:32:59
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Caroline Bauer :
I experience it like I’m a woman but not a capital W Woman. I also like when I call myself a woman but get uncomfortable when other people call me a woman.
2025-04-28 17:17:19
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newport :
i feel like a girl in the way the military names weapons after women
2025-04-30 14:47:11
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☣︎𖤐☣︎ :
I identify as nonbinary because it's the most broad and subjective term, I'm just myself
2025-04-28 17:41:00
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Francisco R. ☭ :
I once heard, and it stuck with me: "It's difficult to feel or experience a gender when I've barely felt human (or been made to feel inhuman) most of my life"
2025-04-30 02:55:27
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basil ࣪ ִֶָ☾. :
I don't rlly feel like a woman or a man I feel like an alien in positive and negative ways lol
2025-04-29 01:51:56
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m :
I feel like a girl but not a woman 😭
2025-04-28 22:59:30
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little_fire_star :
When I was a little girl my gender was evil villain that is cool and wants to rule the world. It still is.
2025-04-28 16:32:56
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lalala :
I honestly don't feel any gender. I literally don't care, I just exist lol
2025-04-30 17:07:47
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adri 🎧 :
relating to fairies more than other girls is so so soo real 😭
2025-04-28 15:56:35
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Peeperpop :
I'm always surprised when someone considers me a girl for some reason. like someone says something about "all of the ladies" and then I'm shocked that they consider me part of that group
2025-04-28 17:18:29
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🍤 Penny 🍤 :
I feel like I’m a woman in the same sense that “chair” is a feminine word in Spanish. Like the language is built that way, so it’s inconvenient for me to be otherwise. But I also don’t really care?Idk
2025-04-29 00:53:54
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HoneyBakedAbby🍉 🆘🇺🇸💙 :
I am a spirit housed in a body that's feminine. she is her. I am me. I just live in this body. this body isn't me.
2025-04-30 11:49:01
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GrimmGrinn :
Most of the time I barely feel "human" let alone like a dude. My entire existence isn't gendered: only small parts of it, because of that I don't understand why how others feel about their self matters to other people so much outside of controlling/hateful/selfish reasons.
2025-04-28 16:22:40
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⋆༺𓆩☠︎︎𓆪༻⋆ :
i dont even feel human some times. im like two entities. Im my conciousness and this flesh that i have to care for. something weird thats existing. im a concept not a person.
2025-04-28 23:51:54
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Lanny 🇨🇦 :
Not ‘other’. Just unapologetically you. It is really nice to follow your journey and discovery of authentic life ❤️
2025-04-28 15:49:52
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costamesacowboy :
I’m a Woman like a tomato is a fruit
2025-05-21 17:49:31
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Kat&co🇬🇧🇪🇺 :
there's something called "autigender" but it's basically realising that we don't do gender norms so we have our own interpretation of gender and what it means to us, if anything ❤️❤️❤️
2025-04-28 19:18:33
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feralcasey :
personally i think as long as you feel gender euphoria that’s more important than gender dysphoria when it comes to being trans
2025-04-28 17:34:34
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