@lukegrosch: It’s not about being in charge… it’s about not spiralling. #actuallyautistic #claritynotcontrol #neurodivergent #autismawareness #audhd

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verzonnenbloem
verzonnenbloem :
My ex used to call me a manipulative control freak when I just wanted information - I didn’t care what his answer was I just needed any clear answer & he could never give me that 😭✨
2025-05-02 07:31:13
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rosemary_walsh
rosemary_walsh :
You have NO idea how much I needed to hear this very moment. Thank you
2025-04-30 08:31:16
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ktyce
ktyce :
All I hear is “quit overthinking it” oh okay I’ll just do that bc you said 😒
2025-05-02 12:25:00
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thisbirdrocks
Thisbirdrocks 🇬🇧 :
People say I always have to be right no matter what, actuality a need for the right information, I’m happy to be wrong as long as I know what is actually right.
2025-05-02 21:03:11
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eye_crust
eye_crust :
Your videos are always such a comfort and they help me understand myself a lot better, thank you
2025-04-29 18:13:10
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really_ravenclaw
Jody Rakow :
Wait just a freaking minute. Are you saying that some people DON’T see information as an ever-expanding web???
2025-05-23 13:31:30
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jackfoxo2
Jack :
It truly can bleed into unhealthy habits and indeed a need for control of a situation so that we will not be surprised by an unexpected outcome. Working to find the balance in myself rn
2025-04-30 23:51:35
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realitycheq
Reality Check :
It is called an external locus of control, and an external regulator. Information doesn't regulate you, how you FEEL about information does.
2025-05-01 09:06:08
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dmbiggs78
Dave Biggs :
And how do we get none Autistic people to understand we're not being difficult
2025-05-05 16:17:03
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daniellesfree4
daniellesfree4 :
I’m getting the silent treatment cuz I didn’t understand why he did something. Now he “sees what’s happening”. Idk what that means and i still didn’t get why he does it. Now silence. 🤐
2025-05-07 03:24:23
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brianc_2489
BrianC :
Need for understanding. Not the worse trait to have. I like this one.
2025-04-29 18:56:27
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ae.tattooing
Anna Elizabeth :
You explained this so well !
2025-04-30 16:30:02
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markburnham.uk
MB :
You are able to vocalise what many can’t! Thank you!
2025-04-30 09:17:22
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philarnold83
Phill Arnold 🇬🇧 :
I agree I really really struggle without this and I'm 42, it never ends
2025-04-29 18:04:13
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danstokes94
danstokes94 :
Honestly the world is so scary and overwhelming but people who aren’t autistic truly don’t understand
2025-05-02 04:28:22
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krystal__joyce
krystal__joyce :
Some people also just purposely leave out the details then get mad when I’m asking for the same details because I can’t understand what they mean
2025-05-01 20:26:56
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adeola.naomi
Adeola.Naomi 🇳🇬🇬🇷🇧🇪 :
So what happens when people don’t give us clarity? What do we do to reduce the over fixation?
2025-04-30 17:47:37
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gettingthroughpoo
Laura :
The way you put this was absolutely beautiful in its simplicity and accuracy.
2025-05-01 01:36:06
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sagelysoul
sagelysoul :
I get the video but PDA which relates to the ASD experience sometimes is all about control? Is it not?
2025-06-17 13:36:42
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maymm5212
maymm :
This.
2025-06-06 21:22:56
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d0nt.w0rry.ab0ut.it0
d0nt.w0rry.ab0ut.it0 :
This is why dating is so complicated
2025-06-20 15:23:38
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lauraalice73
laura :
saved this to show my family so they understand as I've never been able to explain myself properly 😅😅
2025-06-14 21:42:39
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