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Acie :
Thanks for the clarification. OG video left me frustrated as a sub who is sensitive and has hard limits on certain things. But you aren't talking about us. Just ppl who use the word to mask issues.
2025-04-29 23:13:29
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Gabby :
Semantics is what we use to understand what words mean... so if you're using a word that means X on the dictionary and coloquial conversation, but you don't mean X, and you dont say that you dont actually mean X, then yeah, people are going to misunderstand... "People that fake being sensitive" is very different from "people who are sensitive"
2025-04-30 01:26:20
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jewel ribbon :
it's fair to also understand that your audience probably knows the difference between these 2 phrases and maybe how to spot the kind of person you're referring to
2025-05-24 10:11:52
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Lacye Lembcke :
I've had to stop and have boundary conversations multiple times. The men who are fakes, will get angry I challenged them, I'm sensitive to my needs, and wants. It's a good thing, some take it personal
2025-04-29 22:36:34
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Lori Fatzinger :
I’m a sensative person when it comes to my and others emotions. I want to be a sub and know that I’ll have to grow and learn as I go, do worry some of us understand
2025-04-29 22:21:01
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Raven :
It would be nice if they would just walk up and say “I am a fragile easily hurt person”.
2025-04-29 23:12:45
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Ays :
this is a little bit of a weird question for me because I'm still getting to know everything but what do you think of fetlife? do you think it's a solid resource for learning about this community?
2025-05-01 06:54:23
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martha :
i think part of why i’ve been single so long is that i was sensitive in the way that you’re talking about and ran away from the hard conversations and being too vulnerable,
2025-05-07 06:40:20
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_0rph4n_ :
I’m sensitive. But I know how to communicate.
2025-04-29 23:31:28
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Kitcat :
1/2 let me give you all a real world example. I have trauma, I find freedom and safety in being a sub. I’m currently in a relationship with a softdom who I had to have a VERY real conversation with
2025-04-30 13:02:04
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Robin White :
Unfortunately anytime I called out someone for mistreating me I was called sensitive. And therefore for me I view it as a negative. It was a weapon used for them to not take accountability and growth
2025-04-30 17:33:28
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Chelzz 🍉 Adoptee :
I'm standing on the not actually a semantic argument because sensitivity can be psychologically defined differently than the immaturity you're referring to. love everything else!
2025-05-17 17:00:42
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gentle_horsegirl_ :
Okay… I get it… but I also don’t think it’s fair to present sensitivity as a red flag or an inherently bad thing. At the risk of being labeled “too sensitive”, your last video reads as an insult.
2025-05-10 02:24:02
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Nicole :
I agree. It's not bad to be sensitive, but it is bad to use "being sensitive" to manipulate to get your way or avoid your part/place in a dynamic.
2025-04-30 00:46:40
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🌘 Dani 🌒 :
I’m so glad you made a follow up video I admit I was confused lol.
2025-04-29 23:36:46
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aileen :
thank you for explaining, I was so upset when I saw that tiktok because I didnt understand 😬😭
2025-04-30 19:17:14
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The Emotional Support Brat :
This 👏 right 👏 here 👏👏👏
2025-04-29 22:12:28
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izzym094 :
this makes more sense thank you for explaining 💞
2025-04-29 23:58:02
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Cheyenne Amanda :
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2025-04-30 14:52:38
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user28074562488 :
Um? Being sensitive is kinda integral for ES? If being insulted didn't make me cry then whats even the point
2025-05-03 11:29:56
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🍐🖤LilSubShelli🖤🍐 :
A million times Yesss!! I don’t think some people honestly don’t get that us who have been in the community long enough can pick up on posers just by words and the way they react to certain things!
2025-04-30 06:18:53
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Zohra Rouge :
Thanks for clarifying 🖤
2025-04-30 10:56:43
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janekelly0303 :
Ok can I ask I am young and I need to learn but I do think I am a sub I am just scared for stuff because idk what will happen so any tips
2025-05-22 02:10:24
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Helen Namtab :
The communication I learned from my sub/dom relationship helped me grow my other relationships in my life. Not gonna lie, it was rough but necessary to love myself and be able to set boundaries
2025-05-03 02:12:05
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Sassy Blake :
True. Fragile people generally can't acknowledge it. BUT I have had the incredibly satisfying experience of calling a friend out on it & they actually took the feedback and did better. 10/10 🤌
2025-04-29 23:39:47
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