@relationshipswithaly: What do you do if your partner doesn’t want S 3 X and it’s starting to feel personal? You haven’t pushed, you’ve given space, you’ve tried to tackle all of the other blockers like the stress and the mental load and the exhaustion…but they still aren’t interested. How do you talk about it? 🩵Don’t blame, express how it’s impacting you emotionally 🩵Be open to multiple conversations, this isn’t a quick fix 🩵 Remember that you can feel wanted in multiple ways, focus on reviving other romantic elements of the relationship even if physical intimacy isn’t back yet. What would you do?
If my wife ever said “honestly I could live without it” I’m leaving her. That’s a heartless thing to say
2025-06-01 10:22:57
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JLB :
umm I'll take "conversations that have never happened in the history of the world" for 100.
2025-05-28 04:15:32
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s.s.snapetanic :
this conversation only happens in the guy's mind
2025-05-03 04:59:04
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martin :
If I hear mental load one more time! You make time for what you care about.
2025-05-28 22:38:26
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JD3Harris :
So is the key to a strong relationship having conversations that sound like they come straight from Sims?
2025-04-30 12:25:43
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tdawg20002000 :
Trust me, when she isn’t interested it’s time to go.
2025-05-06 09:41:00
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Aaron Kautzky :
overstimulated, headache, tired... scrolls two more hours of Facebook
2025-05-30 11:29:49
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Mickk :
Men. If she has the ring, kids, house, that’s all she wanted. Just keep in paying the bills and fixing things, that’s your job now.
2025-05-02 06:21:10
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MinnesotaDadBod :
“But I just paid the mortgage 3 months in a row and now you expect me to pay the utilities? It’s like all you ever care about is bills. What if I’m just having a financial block right now?”
2025-05-30 01:09:05
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stevesonny76 :
Yeaahhhhh this doesn't work. 😂
2025-05-19 18:55:43
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Katgraceg :
Try “sure but you have to do the work”
2025-05-02 09:59:42
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Charles :
I definitely wish I could talk to my partner like this. It’s about connection not just performing a bodily function. When I express how I need physical intimacy and personal time with my partner it gets brushed off and the reply will be that their are other ways that she shows that she loves me and that I’m just ignoring it.
2025-05-29 20:57:27
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Jiffy247 :
When she says "we're always playing chess" then you know you'll play solitaire for the rest of your life
2025-05-28 19:23:00
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Carapapa :
is this film in the science fiction section??
2025-05-15 07:34:02
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Erik :
In reality she would turn this on him somehow.
2025-05-27 19:29:35
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DadButRad :
When it gets to this point it’ll never change
2025-05-27 00:53:16
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DirtyFox06 :
then he woke up lol
2025-06-26 23:48:42
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Tactical K :
Bet he'll be playing chess with someone else before long. Someone who actually desires him. Bet her chess game was good until he put a ring on it.
2025-05-26 04:21:53
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AzzaHaven :
why is no one talking about the way he asked lol. that's one big reason
2025-05-06 07:48:09
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user2529073660976 :
Had this exact conversation and done everything and more you suggest in the caption and she rarely reciprocates the little connectons and even told me recently "you just need to find someone else for that part of our relationship" I don't want anyone else, I just want the one that's supposed to want me and love me to want and love me. I'm pretty sure it will never happen. I have just learned to suffer in silence because if I even hint at it, it starts an argument...
2025-06-13 15:06:31
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wolvy :
"im so tired" its like 2pm outside.
2025-06-20 14:43:37
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MurphyD :
just starts a fight
2025-06-23 14:31:51
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SecretPsychology :
No matter how you talk about it, she doesn't want him anymore.
2025-05-30 12:28:06
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What-is-going-on :
It’s well explained but men struggle to communicate like this as we get angry about not getting what we need. Men tend to just think bad thoughts and not share and the partner doesn’t know he’s sad
2025-05-05 06:54:41
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