@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights I don’t trust people when they say they are attracted to me… I push people away because I don’t believe them when they say they are attracted to me due to body image issues. My physical shape has also influenced my anxiety. #relatable #emotional #confession #plussize #plussizedating #asafat #thicktok #bodypositivity #selflove #SelfImprovement #weight #dating #datingstorytime #fypシ #fypシ゚viral #fypシ゚ #fyppp

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beckyhelene85
Beckyhelene :
Yeeeeep. My default assumptions at anyone finding me attractive are: 1. Joke, 2. Big girl fet!sh, 3. Toxic person targeting someone they deem desperate to abse. Guard is up and suspicion is high.
2025-05-02 12:41:46
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fayetallyfine
Myka Faye :
My ex admitted that he was never attracted to me physically and that he actually thought my body was disgusting but he loved my mind enough to “look past it”. I’ll probably never trust anyone again
2025-05-01 14:03:27
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thatvixoverthere25
TamTam :
I don't trust that they find me attractive be cause im plus size. yet, I myself, find fuller figured women very attractive. why can't I see it in myself??
2025-05-02 00:03:04
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chellgarvin
QueenC 🇺🇦 :
I just stopped dating, between the ones who fetishized my weight to the feeders and the “well you’re pretty enough”. I was done.
2025-05-01 08:09:29
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potatodragon.14
🥔 Spicy Potato 🥔 :
nope don't trust anyone, not even when friends give compliments. I have already accepted and come to terms I'm no one's type and just live in peace with that
2025-05-01 18:13:32
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ladyhellkitty
Ladyhellkitty :
I’m a bigger girl and my husband just adores me. He tells me all the time he doesn’t like skinny women and he’ll even grab my rolls and say “yum!”. He’s genuinely head over heels. I’m also 48
2025-05-01 21:59:42
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coff33girl
Coff33Kat :
It’s because whether or not they ARE attracted to you, being fat is a cheap, accessible insult for them to pull out to hurt you whenever they want to pull you down. It’s the reminder to “be grateful.”
2025-05-02 02:05:40
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lemonwedgeworth
Wedge :
Yeah I never learned how to apply makeup properly because I just didn’t really think there was any point and I’m still figuring out how I want to look since I spent so long giving up
2025-05-02 01:01:17
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spicybeccasaylor
BeccaBookDragon :
I instantly swipe no on ALL attractive people on dating apps because ✨not a chance✨ I’m not putting myself through high school torment again
2025-05-01 18:05:16
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katiebugz94
Katie G :
I don’t even date because it doesn’t seem worth the pain and humiliation.
2025-05-02 01:17:49
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k7457875
Kaitlynn :
Nooo. Same. I think every compliment is a joke
2025-05-01 16:07:18
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tlvmaqdshg3
jstaGram4369 :
I get it! You are beautiful. But I know exactly what you are talking about.
2025-05-02 14:11:35
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justprincessashes85
JustAshes :
❤️same here
2025-05-02 02:21:14
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d4yna0
Dayna🩵 :
This!!! I’ve been centre of ‘pull a pig’ and ‘get the fattest girl’… now i am in a loving relationship but SO paranoid it’s a joke or something and so insecure. But thankfully my partner is very
2025-05-09 14:40:29
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esmajos
esmajos :
I am currently in a relationship and I am struggling with this kind of thinking again. But I will fight myself again to get to the point where I can feel secure.
2025-05-09 19:57:07
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tinareneeadams
Tina Renee Adams :
Yep. Because no matter how good I am the skinny ones will always be better because to men they will always be better. NO HATE to skinny ladies at all I just know I will never be good enough.
2025-05-01 17:19:38
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curioussscattt
Jen :
I’ve been with my husband for almost 11 years now and I’m still baffled he CHOSE to be with me when he could be with someone half my size. I know he loves me but the demons inside are so damn loud sometimes. We’re all deserving of love, it’s hard to remember ❤️
2025-05-01 15:52:41
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bunteule
Bunteule :
Same here. And sometimes I even run away from guys I think are too skinny no matter how much I like them. How can we work on that? Because I myself like every bodyshape so why can't I believe them?
2025-05-09 14:45:36
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cerealcode
Mack :
listen to people when they tell you who they are. my flesh golem is irrelevant to my ghost pilot, beauty fades it's all in the mind and personality
2025-05-01 21:39:03
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christinaivey0
Christina Lynette 🖤 :
Same until my now husband. Even with my first husband I felt horrible about my body. Now, my hubby tells me DAILY how much he loves me and my body!
2025-05-02 01:12:48
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ini_usagi
Gently soiled thong :
Big mood! When my now hubby messaged me, I laughed, he is MILES out of my league, I was expecting the usual “he knows just how attractive he is” type, nearly four years on, still don’t believe him 😅
2025-05-06 01:49:18
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tattooedcapriicorn
tattooedcapriicorn :
You’re not alone. My guard is still up 3 years in 😭
2025-05-02 00:20:11
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xhannahorrorxx
Hanna 🥀♡ :
yes. middle shool bully trauma and my own mother always fatshaming and abu**ng me cause of my weight play there part in that. ppl are just cruel. but 'i got a pretty face tho.' also burns deep.
2025-05-09 15:14:38
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