I don’t mind if a guy makes less than me. I do mind if they are lazy or unmotivated. You don’t need to be motivated by money but you need to be passionate about something other than video games.
2025-05-01 15:47:32
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YaOkayStacey 🐝 :
Because believing women would mean they’d have to admit that they are the problem. Not the body, the job, the money…it’s your horrible personality.
2025-05-01 23:09:39
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Shannøn ᥫ᭡ :
The problem isn’t them earning less, it’s their insecurity about money in general i.e. calling us gold diggers because they believe we are scamming them for a meal.
2025-05-06 01:47:53
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appalachiandreaming :
They can’t admit the problem is intrinsic, within their control. They prefer the delusion that they’re single for reasons they can’t control.
2025-05-01 16:49:19
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Apple User773287 :
Accepting the truth would mean admitting they’ve been lied to by these men and they believed it and they’d have to self reflect and start doing the work. Their hatred means more than their happiness.
2025-05-01 21:03:24
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vms 🇸🇪 :
I'm sorry, but the men who thinks that women are gold diggers don't even have any gold. They wish they had. Gold diggers don't marry regular working class.
2025-05-03 06:29:21
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jayquellin197 :
My mom earns more than my dad and, guess what? He BRAGS about her. He is PROUD of her. That’s the difference between a grown, REAL, secure man and one of the self proclaimed, so-called “alpha” males.
2025-05-03 20:38:25
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Shannon Kalwarovski :
My partner is a middle school gym teacher. I make double his salary. You know what I don’t need from a partner, money. What i get from him is love and kindness and empathy and support and partnership
2025-05-01 15:47:23
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thesecretsinthesauce :
Because they have sh*tty personalities and can’t accept it
2025-05-02 00:00:24
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Catsplantsand :
I have never asked a man his income. I pay my own bills, so I do not care. I don't ask what their job is, because a job does not make a person. Are they happy? Are they emotionally available?
2025-05-02 19:15:23
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koreanskincareunni :
I have two colleagues who work and their husbands are stay at home with the kids. They made more money even when the guys were working. This is not uncommon.
2025-05-01 17:50:41
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questiontheanswers :
I made the mistake of marrying someone who made more but was fiscally irresponsible. It would have been better if he made less and didn’t waste $$ subsidizing laziness.
2025-05-01 18:48:35
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wekeepchanging :
I married a man who earns half my salary and we are very happy. He is a true partner in raising our children and taking care of the household together. And he has passion and drive in many interests outside of work and is extremely talented in those areas.
2025-05-25 01:57:11
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evildcat :
I’m the breadwinner and my husband is AMAZING with handling the lion share of the house and teen support. 💜
2025-05-02 06:01:42
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Alexandra Beller :
It’s a lot harder to give us what we really want: integrity kindness compassion acceptance. Easier to think we want money.
2025-05-02 11:56:28
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ktputs1082 :
My husband makes less than me. I don’t care, he doesn’t care. He’s an engineer, I’m a lawyer. We are both highly educated. We just have different jobs with different salaries and I own my firm.
2025-05-06 02:33:37
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Erin Whittier :
I make twice as much as my husband 🤷♀️
2025-05-02 17:32:55
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Emily Towe :
I’m a multi-state barred attorney making a great living. I’m doing just fine on my own when it comes to finances. I think many men have been raised to believe financial benefit is the main thing /1
2025-05-04 01:13:51
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Kate :
My son’s coach, his wife makes BANK, he LOVES that woman and brags how he’s able to coach for free because his wife is his sugar momma. He’s one of the few great men I know.
2025-05-06 23:36:34
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Jen Wick :
my husband makes less than me. in our 25 year marriage sometimes he has made more sometimes me.it doesn't matter if you love and respect each other
2025-05-02 20:32:04
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amyamy :
my husband gets paid less, he's the best, he's a PARTNER. it shouldn't matter
2025-05-09 12:23:32
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Forte e Poderosa :
I have supported my self and my 2 kids on my own for more than a decade. I need no ones’s money. I want companionship.
2025-05-01 17:40:19
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DannyVonSnott :
My girlfriend earns way more than me. She works a lot harder than I have to as well. I’m not threatened in the slightest, and I love the life we have together
2025-05-19 10:40:26
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Nalabean10 :
Happy to marry a man who make less if they don’t lie, cheat or abuse others. I know that seems like a low bar but that is where we are.
2025-05-21 12:23:36
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itssuzzann :
I dated two men who were broke and barely made anything, but that didn't matter. They failed me emotionally.
2025-05-01 04:40:25
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M :
Hey guys, making less than and making nothing are two different things
2025-05-01 13:59:51
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LB :
Nearly all of my friends make more than their husbands. Sadly they also still do the vast majority of the labor at home and with the kids. Make it make sense.
2025-05-01 21:06:34
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EireLatina :
Is that the part where we tell those men to “choose better”?
2025-05-01 15:49:33
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Yulie :
Make 3ish times what he makes. Loves him so much and he is mine to spoil. I will buy this man a damn house and treat him. He is just the best.
2025-04-30 23:58:57
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MamasMadatYouuu🇺🇸🆘 :
They always claim we lie! My ex used to do the same thing until one day I screamed “WHO DO YOU THINK IS THE EXPERT HERE? YOU? OR THE ACTUAL WOMAN IN THE ROOM?”
2025-05-02 17:05:19
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10walk :
My husband made more when we first got married. He supported me through college and my masters, and now I make more. He calls me his sugar Mama. 🤣
2025-05-02 09:57:55
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Panda :
Rich or poor, if you have a negative attitude towards life ot yourself or mentally abusive, you are automatically a no. Women want peace.
2025-05-01 17:51:02
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Mrs. Woods :
When we married I had a degree, he didn't. He worked at Little Ceasars. But he had an incredible work ethic and he respected my boundaries and cheered me on and made me laugh. 25 years this month.
2025-05-02 15:14:50
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Tuttoilcibo :
The men who are calling women liars are the ones we don't want to marry.
2025-05-01 04:28:52
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Nicole :
I’ve been married to a man who has made less than me for the entirety of our 20 years of marriage, with the exception of two years during Covid. He’s the best investment I ever made and a true partner
2025-05-01 19:33:14
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Tezi :
nothing to do with the videon but just love the work you do! some men obv dont listen to women when we say it so to hear a man say it can be the awekning they need
keep doing the good fight my man 💪
2025-05-01 01:38:24
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LGrimes :
Hi married two men that made less than me and they were so happy at first, and then they grew to resent me and almost left me bankrupted.
2025-05-02 13:24:26
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user6917107083383 :
My husband stayed home with our kids while they were in school - it made the most sense for us based on earning lower.
2025-05-01 23:31:08
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Mogicor329 :
My husband earns less than I do, but he is amazing and confident in who he is. He is the best partner
2025-05-01 22:35:03
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Tezi :
imagine how good a man would have it if he didnt work and all he needed to was there emotionaly and somehow thats still to much to ask for from some men
2025-05-01 01:34:38
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Lu 📚 :
I'm the breadwinner. my husband is a paramedic. I'm corporate.
he works super hard.
we have a fantastic and equitable relationship.
2025-05-02 09:28:49
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TB💙 🇵🇦 :
My husband and I have been together for over 40 yrs. Our earnings have flip flopped. Sometimes he made more, others I made more
2025-05-02 13:47:29
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RaeLunaLuck :
I married someone who made 3x less. As long as he can pay his bills I don’t care what he makes
2025-05-02 04:58:52
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stephmagee1 :
My man makes about 50k less than me. I don’t get what the big deal is. The men that think it matters are the ones to stay away from
2025-05-02 18:14:42
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Anna Hamilton :
Men not listening to women?!? I’m shocked!! This NEVER happens!!
2025-05-02 13:55:50
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Dogs. Food. Yarn. :
Which of us earns more has switched back and forth the whole 20 years of our marriage. Never once has it made any difference.
2025-05-02 13:33:22
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Jenn :
I dated a man who made less than me. I had no issue with it but he couldn’t handle it. I wasn’t willing to make less so he feel better about himself so we split up.
2025-05-01 23:51:39
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Whitney Warren :
They would rather think it's about money than acknowledge the real problem because becoming emotionally intelligent is harder work than a 6-figure job.
2025-05-02 00:23:13
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KB❌ :
I would not date someone who wasn’t my financial equal. That doesn’t mean salary it means financial intelligence, spending smarts, investment wise, and lifestyle equivalent.
2025-05-01 16:55:20
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Sister Kristian :
I make more money than my husband, but he does work and contribute, and he’s a great husband and father. There’s a big difference between not earning as much, and laying around doing nothing.
2025-05-01 15:29:33
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Nina :
My husband was unemployed when we met and he didn't have a clue what he wanted to do in life. We've navigated life together and 12 years later he owns a successful business. Couldn't be any prouder
2025-05-02 10:54:28
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Tuesday at Tiffany’s :
Saying we’re lying is easier than actual self improvement or realizing we’d rather be alone than date them
2025-05-03 05:15:49
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ChaoticGoodFeminist🆘🇺🇸 :
I make more than my partner 🔥
2025-05-02 01:47:30
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Chicventures :
My fiance makes less I don't mind at all, he is really happy for me and thinks it is awesome that I have a good job... I know many ppl who are in same situation so they are probably not lying 😅
2025-05-02 10:02:01
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Rachel in PDX 🆘️🇺🇲 :
I made 10× my ex husband, and now it's WAY cheaper to just pay spousal support... My new partner was a Costco Cashier. I make A LOT, I don't know any men that make what I make. It is what it is.
2025-05-03 00:32:47
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naturalselection :
This is a good example of misogyny, no matter the woman’s answer she is “wrong” or “lying”
2025-05-11 02:44:00
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DJE1527 :
It’s self inflicted.THEY feel less than their woman because all they were taught was to provide thru$$. when they don’t have that- they don’t know how to provide emotionally so they shift the blame
2025-05-02 03:15:02
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Fionna :
Because of that were true then their lack of daring success is about THEM
2025-05-02 02:26:56
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