I give him so much space and he never comes back to give me what I want. It's exhausting
2025-05-02 16:02:58
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Natascha :
The reason of this is that the avoidant is creating cognitive dissonance since their words and actions not align, it creates confusion
2025-05-02 06:36:32
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Courtney Gudbranson :
I choose avoidant men because I too am avoidant.
2025-05-02 13:34:20
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Leslie :
I stop saying what bothered me because I knew he wouldn’t listen. He just leave anytime and let me hanging and never come back to repair. A relationship with and avoidant is pure confusion.Never again
2025-05-02 10:37:21
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𝔹𝕣𝕚𝕤𝕤𝕒 🌻 :
As a women I am the avoidant partner 🥺 I don’t know how to heal
2025-05-02 00:44:24
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A :
This is happening right now. I’m so confused. He moved out after 6yrs saying he needs space. Wanted to still be talking after he said he wouldn’t talk to me for maybe months immediately was checking..
2025-05-02 00:03:37
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squirrelpause :
I kept giving more and more space, while he kept dismissing my needs. No compromise, no reciprocity, and in the end, I was the only one that could speak the truth about his behavior.
2025-05-02 11:50:43
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Selene :
I mean this with no hate towards anyone at all.... *insert middle finger emoji* 😂
2025-05-02 06:18:55
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𝑨𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒂 :
The avoidant will typically use somatic abuse though
2025-05-02 20:24:13
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Moira Jo :
Avoidant attachment women dating other Avoidants now that’s interesting ha ha
2025-05-03 13:04:00
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BewareOfDanaos :
And then they leave
2025-05-02 11:38:51
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Herecomeshealing :
💯yes
2025-05-01 23:35:08
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Exhausted :
Yep. Bc with avoidants there’s no reciprocity and no compromising. You end up empty and unfulfilled.
2025-05-15 18:26:16
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julziep123 :
I accept it’s nothing more that where it is. The avoidant in my life is constantly looking for someone “better” He just doesn’t have the tools to understand there is nothing better. For me life is way too short to sit in limbo
2025-05-14 11:50:31
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Tequila Coco🥥🍍🔮🌙──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
the problem is we exist lol
2025-05-03 20:36:18
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Cat :
I need someone who can stand up for themselves and isn’t afraid to show me that they’re healthy
2025-06-03 04:36:40
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clem :
So I should end things?
2025-05-08 19:51:27
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mpe218 :
Good info thank you
2025-05-02 00:56:27
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Brandi :
Absolutely THIS!! 💯 💯💯
2025-05-02 17:50:10
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diana :
Yes!!! 1000% this. ❤️Stand firm in your emotional attunment an grounding
2025-05-08 08:55:39
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Princess Nadina :
Oof
2025-05-02 23:37:59
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Zip Zap Phoenix :
Totally agree. I went through this and now I'm leaving the marriage finally on a good space because I know it's not me. Sad but true.
2025-05-18 12:57:00
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Ingrid’s Universe 💫 :
but how do we do that exactly? any examples?😭
2025-06-20 16:27:59
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ℛ :
I had given enough space but I never got any reply when tried to express and he didn’t even open up
2025-05-25 18:02:25
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