100% agree! I paid for my bridesmaids’ dresses, hair, makeup, personalised pjs/slippers/clutch, earrings and only asked them to wear their own shoes. Wouldn’t dream of asking them to pay for anything
2025-05-04 07:46:03
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Lisa Davies :
I’m 48…when did this even become a thing for brides to expect people to pay for things? Outrageous behaviour! 🤯
2025-05-04 10:35:21
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jodieblue80 :
Nope , they would be buying a dress anyway and they have a choice if they want to be involved or not , plus if anyone is spending that much money on one dress for someone’s else’s wedding they are mad
2025-05-05 18:44:39
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Gina 🕸🕷🐈⬛🦇 :
I agree.. when i got married... I paid for the dress , shoes, accessories. everything.. its my wedding.people would get offended if they said no... they would deny it.but they would be upset.....
2025-05-04 12:03:34
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skodfugl :
can you help me move? please bring furniture for my new house
2025-05-04 15:28:20
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Mrs McDonald :
Scottish bride here! Bought the dresses for the bridesmaid and flower girls, paid the rental for the kilts for the groomsmen. Also paid for hair and make up etc. If it’s your wedding, you pay!
2025-05-05 08:15:01
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Rebecca Pomeroy :
Yes! 'But it's a lovely dress, you can wear it again!'. Nope. Nope I won't. It doesn't matter how much I love the dress, it will always be a bridesmaids dress so I will never wear it again. 🤷🏻♀️
2025-05-04 09:26:35
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Jessika Carter :
How do you feel about groomsmen? I feel they can wear it again so most people tell them they need to pay. Also suits are more expensive, thoughts? It’s abit of a double standard but understandable?
2025-05-04 08:17:02
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Emily :
I disagree, it's your day you do what you need for you. It's an honor to be asked to be a apart of a wedding, and either way most people buy a dress/suit for a wedding anyway. Mine are paying for theirs but they can spend as little or as much as they like 😊
2025-05-20 14:10:02
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J.R 🏴🇬🇧 :
I didn't realise people didn't buy the dress for the bridesmaids or pay for the suit hire for the groomsmen. you ask people to be involved you cover all expenses
2025-05-04 12:25:58
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Ursula :
But who owns the dress after?
2025-05-04 15:11:52
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Danielle Marie :
I completely disagree. If you have a big family you want all 7 sisters but can’t afford it. It’s acceptable to say ‘I’d love all of you but can’t afford it’ they have a choice then
2025-05-04 12:49:36
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Mrs Katie B :
Ehhh imo it depends on you tbh… I brought literally everything else for them but asked them to buy their own dresses and just asked them all to be in the same colour 🤷🏼♀️xxx
2025-06-26 10:50:05
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Mrs. Mc’s Books :
Yes, I agree and re suits for groomsmen, we bought ones for our dads, asked all had a grey suit except one. He wouldn’t need a suit normally but he was same size as my husband and borrowed one of his
2025-05-06 10:02:31
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Amy Charlotte :
I’ve been asked to buy a £120 six stories dress and then optional hair and makeup artist at £80 😅
2025-05-31 21:59:45
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Loudsvidsonwalker :
Of course! How’s this even a debate? X
2025-05-04 13:46:59
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me :
is this new in the Uk? it was always paid by the wedding couple. lets stop any more things the americans do coming over here
2025-05-04 12:49:11
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jmb :
Yes! 100%
2025-06-29 04:21:04
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Jess Hardy :
I gave my bridesmaids the option, if they wanted to a pick a dress of their choice that they could wear again in the future then they pay but if they don’t want to, I’ll pay! 🥰
2025-06-16 08:08:08
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Louise Ashton :
I've paid for dresses, asked them when asking if they will pay for shoes, hair, make up & they were all okay with this, we've also bought groomsmen suits and asked them to sort white shirts & black shoes we've done ties
2025-06-11 12:48:28
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tayloralice108 :
totally agree, will be buying the dress, and paying for hair and make up.
2025-05-13 03:57:19
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kkeoghanvisan :
100% agree, and I find it so weird that someone wouldn’t agree with that? Surely it’s the norm ? lol I know everyone’s money situations are different but come on….
2025-05-06 18:46:32
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Maggie Maguire :
My sister had 6 bridesmaids and paid for all of them
2025-05-06 13:53:36
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gabiroseowens :
Agreed, I bought all my bridesmaids dresses, paid for hair and make up and jewellery, all they had to do was buy shoes because some had ones they wanted to wear already
2025-05-04 17:00:35
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