I don’t see hyper independence as a problem, though 😭
2025-05-05 20:44:32
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Fabi :
Why is it always a competition 😭
2025-05-05 08:02:01
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illicitthings7 :
you need to call back whoever did your lips instead of the nonsense you are spouting now
2025-05-05 13:45:26
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laura :
they’re trying to silence you but you’re right
2025-05-05 22:48:35
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🪽 :
Hope u become a happier person soon babe! xx
2025-05-05 09:08:28
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⎊ save_thempire ⍟ :
so there’s this thing called friendship…
2025-05-05 18:18:25
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avabandmaster :
but wouldnt both of them be trauma responses?
2025-05-05 07:08:37
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🫶 :
you make me feel so smart
2025-05-05 07:58:32
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raeofsunshine :
as a hyper independent person, I feel the same anger and frustration, but I also understand that anger has more to do with the wound that I have where I had no support and had to heal on my own.
2025-05-05 14:06:55
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user69696969420 :
also became hyper independent but glad it didn’t make me lose empathy for how others respond to their trauma and think i’m better bc my issues manifest differently
2025-05-05 16:30:35
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Hector Munoz :
"I suffered, so why shouldn't they?"
vs
"I suffered, so I will help others"
2025-05-06 16:50:31
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NellyPooh :
I don't understand the "My trauma response is better than your trauma response" people. Like are you not both victims? 😭🤣
2025-05-05 18:54:58
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Jade :
I did crawl out of hell alone im just tired now SORRY🤣🤣
2025-05-05 05:14:43
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Angelearth🦋🍂 :
I’ve been in both circumstances
2025-05-05 07:55:08
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caram3l_macch1ato :
So do you understand that both are on the different sides of the same coin and both are just as bad
2025-05-06 03:12:36
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yermomssexyrobloxbotty :
Tbh, I think both ends of the spectrum are mentally exhausting.
2025-05-05 17:55:04
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jennasnapss :
Agreed
2025-05-05 20:22:17
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Dr.Stockholm333 :
Everyone heals from trauma differently and it is not our place to judge if they are working on improvement. Please have empathy. It is not a contest for who is strongest or has the worst trauma.
2025-05-05 18:04:07
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Kavez :
Ain't nothing more annoying than having to hold space for some who can't do ANYTHING but can conveniently explain exactly why they can't do anything. Learned Helplessness sucks.
2025-05-05 16:04:30
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22_Days :
There’s a difference between asking for help and holding their hand for every minor inconvenience…
2025-05-06 20:49:02
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kaycamille_ :
no there’s people who have a support system and then there’s learned helplessness 🫣
2025-05-05 22:14:31
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Vernamir_of_Gondor :
Wow this comment section is disappointing. Don’t listen to these ppl trying to shame you. They just don’t get it. This is a valid thought/frustration to express.
2025-05-07 08:12:24
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