@pedsdoctalk: Toddlers refusing food isn’t always about pickiness—it’s often about independence. Between 12–18 months, toddlers start asserting themselves. Saying “no” at the table? That’s autonomy at work—not necessarily a sign of a feeding issue. But here’s what we don’t talk about enough: 🍽️ Most toddlers' appetites naturally dip after age 1 due to slower growth. 🧠 Pushing food in response to refusal can backfire—it disconnects them from their hunger and fullness cues. 😖 And the high chair might not be the problem—it could be how their feet dangle or how much control they feel. So what helps? * Offering simple choices to create buy-in * Creating a supportive setup (even on the floor if that works!) * Keeping mealtime playful, not pressured But—here’s when it’s time to check in with your clinician: * If they’re still only eating purées * If they gag or vomit with textures * If they refuse all food or seem distressed repetitively at mealtimes * Or if there are concerns about growth That’s where a feeding therapist—usually an occupational or speech therapist—can help. They’ll assess oral motor skills and sensory needs, and give you tools tailored to your child. ✨ Want even more tools for making mealtimes less stressful? The Picky Eating Playbook is on sale now through May 5 at 11:59PM EST—only $27 (regularly $47)! This course walks you through the why behind feeding struggles and exactly how to respond with confidence. 🗣️ Head to link in bio for the course link + full sale details (all PDT resources are discounted this week!) 👶🏼 Follow @pedsdoctalk for more real-world toddler strategies rooted in developmental science. 💬 What’s one thing that’s helped your toddler explore food without the pressure? #PickyEatingTips #ToddlerMeals #ResponsiveFeeding #FeedingTherapy #ParentingTips #PedsDocTalk #ChildDevelopment
My son refuses EVERYTHING he will only take a few bites 2-3bites of pureed food or steamed veggies and then doesn’t want anything but my breast milk
2026-06-30 21:04:24
31
💎Onyx💎 (kayla) :
my 18 month old is refusing EVERYTHING but flavored oatmeal and im getting desperate
2025-09-14 18:29:20
43
𝐁𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐞𝐬 | 𝐒𝐀𝐇𝐌 :
OK, but my baby doesn’t understand the concept of food yet because I keep giving her purées, but she doesn’t understand the concept of how to pick it up and put it in her mouth. How do I get her to do that? How do I get her to put it in her mouth at least.?
2026-01-03 06:25:58
6
Tess :
Let me know when you find out. My son chews stuff up then spits out. 😂
2025-09-07 11:23:25
65
Dimplz84 ♑️ 🧿 :
This is my struggle with my exclusively breast fed 13 month old 😅
2026-02-12 20:44:36
10
@softlifewithsonia :
My 17months don’t want to eat normal food.he wants everything blended and put in a bottle 🥲
2026-01-14 16:29:04
3
Dbl Crafted :
My 11 month old focuses on throwing the plate or bowl.
2025-09-09 02:51:09
9
Tam 🤎 :
I’m wondering if he’s not interested in solids at 14 months because he only have two teeth. I’m stressed.
2026-02-19 03:17:45
1
AK :
The division of responsibility has been a game changer for my 23m old!! We see a dietitian and low pressure offering has made such a difference, and monkey see monkey do! “Look at how silly mama eats!
2025-05-07 01:54:39
2
Zėĩĩ Tęÿ :
My 10month only put cookie in his mouth not food😥
2026-04-24 07:22:14
0
. :
is it normal for an 8.5m EBF baby to still be completely refusing solids? It seems he's still struggling to swallow and has no interest 😞
2025-05-06 15:10:09
2
Tiffany LaRae :
Thank you —- sitting here with an almost 12 month old who won’t eat solids all the time 😩
2026-02-16 20:28:26
1
Brain Sparks :
my 1 year old doing the same
2025-10-08 16:20:11
1
Shyshy🤯💙 :
My daughter rn day 3 barley eating her solids
2025-09-24 14:27:32
1
Colleen Kennedy Malc :
Thank you! So helpful!
2025-05-14 01:06:06
1
negnegpan🦋🦋 :
this is what my 10 months old does😭
2025-07-22 16:07:19
0
💛vanessasavors💛 :
lol my life currently
2025-06-09 13:41:01
3
two2js :
If my toddler has control he will only eat crackers , I tried putting a half cracker next to some food , he ate the cracker and throws the rest . I’ve done all these . Non of it works . I’ve tried him feeding me, playing train or dinosaur but nope .
2026-10-15 02:34:50
0
RavenRich :
This is what I’m dealing with a almost 19 month old
2026-04-14 07:14:23
0
Klauds😊😊 :
yup that’s mine !!!!!
2026-08-22 18:34:52
0
Ksherell_22 :
N mmm n
2026-08-20 23:15:54
0
Nana Rodriguez :
He doesn’t even like bottles never used one barley started using his sippy cup for water
2026-06-30 21:05:38
0
Ruth K Nare :
Mine is 15months old and refuses to eat all the time.He drinks a lot of water and breastmilk only.When I offer some real food he either refuses or takes one bite only.
2026-11-01 12:49:19
0
mamalexis :
This is what my son does 😩
2025-09-05 20:49:41
0
To see more videos from user @pedsdoctalk, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.