Debra Kostiw Dementia
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Monday 05 May 2025 22:23:50 GMT
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loripark81 :
My great Aunt was so upset at the funeral home that her daughter didn't tell her, her Son IL died. But she went through it every 30 mins at the funeral home. Her daughter died 8 months later and 1/2
2025-05-05 23:04:41
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Patty :
my mother 83 is asking where her mother is. my grandmother died in 1973. how do I tell her that she died 52 years ago. should I just change the subject and redirect?
2025-05-07 21:32:31
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Deborah Ashbaugh :
I don’t like to tell my hubby because it causes him anxiety. We live in NC and all our families live in the northern states so it’s not like he sees those family members.
2025-05-23 20:48:25
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Sherri Cossel Kappas :
Very old aunt (died at age 105) had a nephew die. No one told her. About 6 months later she said when did he die. She knew cause he didn't send a Xmas card
2025-05-06 13:02:14
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user3975584116828 :
When my dad had dementia, his brother passed away and I could not dare tell him. I carry the guilt from that after he passed.
2025-05-06 03:35:55
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🥀𝒞𝒶𝓁𝓁𝒾𝑒 ℜ𝒶𝑒 ✞ :
we ain’t tell my grandpa his friend passed, grandpa was on his deathbed, was like oh paul your here, nice 👍 so yeah it doesn’t matter they’ll know lol
2025-05-06 14:29:30
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user9936740224829 :
We chose not to
2025-05-05 23:33:28
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Diane Sik :
my step mom.would keep asking where my dad was..her husband...she did go to the funeral..but we decided not to keep bringing that up to bring her more pain .one day she asked my sister.where dad was n my sister didn't think about it n said don't u remember he died a. few mths ago..my poor step mom had to go thru that pain again
2025-06-01 23:02:42
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Melissa Lynn Vink :
Precies dit speelt nu bij mijn oma. We hebben haar wel toen haar broer nog enigszins oke was ze een laatste keer samen gebracht zodat ze 'afscheid' van elkaar konden nemen (in hoeverre ze het nog begrijpt) wel met de wetenschap dat haar broer ziek is (dat heeft ze tot nu toe ook onthouden) maar we weten nog niet als familie wat te doen wanneer hij komt te overlijden. Precies hetzelfde met haar schoonzoon. Het is ook onvoorspelbaar hoe ze zal reageren omdat haar emoties zo wisselend zijn. Bedankt voor deze video met uw uitleg 🙂👍
2025-06-12 22:29:58
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valentinapiccoli24 :
anyway they'll forget what happened a bunch of hours after. So, you'll have to repeat the same thing and the same crying a lot of times. Pls avoid that, it,'s terrible.
2025-05-06 10:29:28
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Rhonda :
I didn’t tell my mom that her son died
2025-05-31 17:43:45
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Nancy Colvin :
My mom doesn’t remember my sister passed away.I don’t remind her.When she ask about her I tell her she is at work.
2025-05-06 05:21:00
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Diana Rodriguez :
Love your posts. I’m going to suggest you try charcoal gray eyeliner or dark brown. Black is way to harsh for you face and eyes. It will take time to adjust to the change.
2025-05-07 04:31:36
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user2986034528169 :
My aunt granddaughter passed away. I was sitting in the limo, when asked what are they doing? She could see the Casket. I said they are having a Homegoing. She was fine, better than most family.
2025-05-06 07:00:04
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Noodlebug4U :
I think it depends on not only the day, but the person and mental capacity as well.
2025-05-05 22:51:12
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Robert Haut :
My mom thinks her brother is still alive and he passed 3 years ago. I said he’s ok. She said when was someone going to tell me my parents died. I came up with a story. They passed 20/30 years ago.
2025-05-06 01:00:24
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wendywest158 :
no
2025-05-15 04:55:36
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Theresa :
when my sister passed away I didn't tell my mom,she knew at the funeral she did great
2025-05-07 01:30:15
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Tonya Beavers :
my mom doesn't remember that her brother passed away
2025-05-06 15:29:19
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Tune :
We couldn’t tell my grams about her son in law; it would’ve caused more problems for her
2025-05-06 02:42:00
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Pg :
Well explained. Very hard decision. Yes the “outcome “
2025-05-05 23:14:47
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Coaching W/LesPaul 💯 :
Sister-in-law passed and she was her husband’s caregiver. He has no idea she’s passed. He doesn’t remember her at all. So so sad. 😞
2025-06-03 01:36:07
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Mill-kċina tiegħi :
When I use to work in a care home I’d always recommend not to tell the person with dementia as they end up confused and disoriented sometimes even aggressive
2025-05-06 23:11:54
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Anne Howard🐾 :
when Mum is sad, I don't tell her, we just tell fun or interesting stories. when she's having a good day, I tell her.
2025-05-05 22:38:08
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memeindahouse2 :
You are delightful 😘😘😘 Thanks so much for the information! I’m saving all these videos for my daughter incase she has to deal with this for me 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️
2025-05-05 22:41:24
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