Shameless Elle 🇨🇦
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502smiley :
Well said Elle
2025-05-08 14:56:16
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DadBastard :
No advice here. But as a kid who had a true single mom her emotions were something I had to deal with. Immediate reactionary punishment. And that still affects me as an adult. But I appreciated her vulnerability. That was good for me to know she was dealing with life. And it’s ok to be real. But anger and punishment don’t go together
2025-05-23 14:58:27
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Patrice Ori@n :
im a dr of human behaviour and yes you are right
2025-05-09 01:38:29
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LotusFlower :
this is how I parent. 💙
2025-05-24 03:13:26
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Sandy🇨🇦 :
You are so wise! I wish I had thought of these things when my kids were home, especially as teenagers.
2025-05-08 23:37:56
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Megan 86 h :
Solid advice
2025-05-21 14:35:05
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Jewels 🇨🇦 :
“You don’t have to be everything all the time”. Omg I needed this!!! Single mom to 4 VERY needy/clingy boys!!! There are no boundaries and I feel like I’m going crazy often 😭
2025-05-08 17:59:42
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❤️KK❤️🇨🇦 :
👏👏👏👏 yup
2025-07-03 19:23:04
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Deb :
Couldn’t agree with you more! Also it’s ok to apologize if you had a moment that you overreacted to. It’s ok to let your kids know you’re not perfect but trying your best
2025-06-03 22:24:20
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Deborah Warrior🛡️ :
What great advice. I have had to apologize for poor responses and explain parents aren’t perfect and we make mistakes but it definitely made a harsh core memory and that makes me sad.
2025-05-09 22:45:40
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Jessica Dawn🇨🇦🫦 :
omg, I haven't seen your content in awhile, so glad to see you. 💙
2025-05-08 17:34:06
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Rob :
I agree. caveat is safety. I would recommend preplan, as much as possible, responses to different scenarios. improvise in the moment.
2025-05-09 05:12:22
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Healing by Edward🇨🇦 :
I was a single parent of two... Great advice. ✨🙏
2025-05-11 14:52:08
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Patrice Ori@n :
and the children need time to think about it to and the time helps
2025-05-09 01:37:04
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Patrice Ori@n :
same here
2025-05-09 01:35:39
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MimifromLdot :
💕💕💕
2025-05-18 01:02:08
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Laurie 002🇨🇦 :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-05-10 15:57:40
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iexecutive :
😂
2025-05-09 16:24:45
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iexecutive :
👍
2025-05-09 16:24:45
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🤍 Katherine 🤍 :
absolutely, no need to put on a show of infallible perfection. Kids do well understanding there's a human side of being a mom. i used to go on strike.. handing the baton to youngest for a few hours, letting them experience both sides.. making light of every day decisions. 😊
2025-05-12 17:20:20
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weird_and_fabulous :
As a 47 year old child free woman, I am amazed by parents right now. Dealing with all the things in the world AND raising children. I don’t know how you do it but I am so so proud of you. 💗
2025-05-08 15:00:14
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MissVivienne🇦🇺 :
Excellent advice.
2025-05-08 15:02:23
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Mema8186 :
Perfect response—we have to give ourselves grace & permission to not respond until we are ready & able to do so appropriately
2025-05-08 15:05:16
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AirBoss :
Elle, In my life experiences, you are a fountain of wisdom.
2025-05-09 19:30:32
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Just Nick :
Good advice. Respond, don’t react😀
2025-05-08 16:12:14
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patrickminney :
You’re amazing. This goes for dads too💚
2025-05-08 19:01:34
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Michelle 🍁 🇨🇦 :
I feel like this could go with anything with kids. Not necessarily being upset but just answering questions that are sensitive in nature.
2025-05-08 15:29:28
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Mona 🇨🇦 :
Great advice for everyone really. It’s okay to not immediately respond, it teaches them patience, respect, boundaries.
2025-05-08 16:12:35
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Maria :
they need to learn to respect boundaries sooner or later. learning it from a parent is an excellent way 🫶
2025-05-08 15:30:27
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Edee Fletcher :
It took learning to accommodate my kids to accommodate myself. Seek therapeutic guidance on your emotional regulation. If you can't manage that, you will react to your kids as your parents did to you.
2025-05-08 17:37:09
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Mammiprime🇨🇦 :
❤️
2025-05-08 18:03:41
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Siobhan :
You can tell them they are out of words too. It worked until I was like a teenager I was like okay I won’t talk to you for a bit. It works and they won’t be too hurt by it
2025-05-12 18:48:49
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Keri 🇨🇦 :
I’m not a single mom and I have to do this kids are overwhelming and we’re just people
2025-05-13 17:57:48
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Nic :
I’m not a mom, but I still needed this reminder. Thanks for posting it.
2025-05-09 13:02:43
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Redhead.Jade :
Amen 🙏 didn’t realize you were a single momma too, Elle! ❤️
2025-05-08 22:01:21
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Sweettiger💎❤️✨ :
you're awesome 🌹🌹🌹
2025-05-08 14:50:36
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Earthangelanonmis🇮🇪🍀✌️🇵🇸 :
That’s exactly what I did with my son whose now 24 and a wonderful human
2025-05-08 17:34:33
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Karlie 🇨🇦🏳️🌈🧡 :
My partner and I are married, but I'm ASD and they are ADHD. I'm seriously ill and on disability, they are currently looking for work, so the stress means parenting is hard. This is SUCH good advice.
2025-05-08 17:32:20
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Chrizelda Schirmer :
😔 needed this, thank you ❤️
2025-05-08 17:20:26
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Steve Dietrich 🇨🇦 :
❤️❤️❤️
2025-05-08 17:16:07
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CanadianMomma77 :
Yes yes and yes. The emotional reaction is not what you want to do.im a gardening mom so that has always helped me “focus”
2025-05-08 17:15:54
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🧡🌈Tammy🖤🌈 :
well said ♥️
2025-05-08 16:22:38
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