@psychreavilla: Hindi kayo nag-away. Wala namang issue. Pero napansin mong… hindi ka na ganun ka-komportable. Hindi mo na ma-share ang mga pangarap mo. Hindi ka na naiintindihan tulad ng dati. That’s called relational grief. Yung tahimik na lungkot kapag na-outgrow mo ang isang taong mahal mo pa rin. Sa kultura natin, mahaba ang samahan = loyalty. Pero minsan, history isn't enough. Ask yourself: Safe ka pa ba sa friendship na ‘to? Kailangan mo bang pilitin ang connection? Kaya mo bang i-honor yung pinagsamahan… nang hindi pinipilit yung hindi na talaga? You can love someone deeply, and still let them go—gently. Growth isn’t betrayal. At ang pagprotekta sa peace mo… isang anyo rin ng pagmamahal. #MentalHealth #RelationalGrief #OutgrowingFriendships #QuietHealing #EmotionalGrowth #FriendshipBoundaries #LettingGoWithLove #HealingJourney #SelfRespect #Psychology #Psychreavilla
Do i feel safe and seen? This is the right question 👍💯
2025-05-09 11:37:36
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Iza Mendez Encio :
thank you for sharing this po. I really miss my bestfriend, but I think we were no longer connect. We tried to fix our relationship but we ended up hurting each other again over simple thing.
2025-05-09 12:57:45
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sheika27 :
Msakit p s break up ng bf mo...
2025-05-09 06:44:39
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Kimmie ✨ :
Iba na trip nila, hindi na ako belong sa plans nila. But, it’s okay, people change. 😊
2025-05-09 14:25:19
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เทเรซ :
They're my college friends, nalayo na kami since we graduated last June. After that, marami akong narealize. Those red flags from our group na hindi
2025-05-10 11:44:08
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Lele🇵🇭🇺🇸 :
I’ve been there.I’ve changed for the better and have outgrown my friends.As I started to distance myself, I became the center of gossip within the group. It affected me deeply and consumed my thoughts
2025-05-09 17:36:22
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Kahel🍊 :
I think I've outgrown friends, I no longer feel the care and love anymore 😞
2025-05-13 13:21:40
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Annamazing :
thank you for the advice 😊
2025-07-19 12:52:51
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🧿 :
Timing is crazy. :(
2025-05-09 18:46:35
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Christopher(Taylor's Version) :
I'm not a psychologist, But the way you drink it first before you say these advisable words. It gives you clarity and calmness to deliver what are you trying to say.
2025-05-09 14:44:23
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Teacher Michelle 🩷🩷🩷 :
I need to hear this...
Thank you po. ☺️🙏🥰
2025-05-09 13:47:37
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jhaney_fabz :
can it also happen sa family
2025-05-14 04:06:19
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Ate Lai :
Do I feel safe or unseen?
When you were betrayed once forgive them but never refriend again. The friendship will never go back to the days where you started. That's what I learned sa 13yrs friendship.
2025-05-09 15:22:17
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=-Ate Ann-= :
is this true with families also??
2025-05-10 21:40:39
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Silvor Kim :
I have a colleague. Sbrang close nmin nung una, pro na msinterpret nya po pg ka clingy ko to d point na nag assume na sya na my feelings aq skanya. Hangga't lumayo na tlaga sya. gus2 ko na sna bumalik
2025-05-09 13:22:09
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sha_nine :
thank you, i need it today.
2025-05-10 08:37:03
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Tayla Swiff 🍯 :
I cut off my bestfriend kasi he's too comfortable na maging subject ako ng mga jokes nya kahit napapahiya na ako sa harap ng students namin.
2025-05-09 16:38:41
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@prettytin :
I feel this po Ma'am. sobrang mahal ko yung friend ko na yun pero dahil nagkaron kami ng gap before and I tried to reconcile with my friend Pero parang naulit nya ulit yung ginawa nya before kaya nalulungkot ako kasi parang feeling ko end of friendship na namen Yun😔 ako na ang gustong dumistansya Pero nasasaktan ako kasi mahal ko yung taong yun. tinuring ko na halos na kapatid.
2025-05-09 06:37:21
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gellll_Faith :
"love someone deeply and still let them go gently" 😭 hits different, especially when you're too attached to them, that she's the only one you are comfortable with.🙃
2025-05-10 07:48:55
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irene lab :
umuwi sya galing abroad pero never sya nagparamdam sa akin,everytime pupunta Ako sa city lahat ng tao tinitingnan ko baka Makita ko sya like sa mall pero Wala tlga.nag chat Ako pero Wala reply.
2025-05-09 12:45:05
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Miro Codog :
I was in that season. But we outgrew each other that lead us to feel less connected or aligned. I just embrace the change and moved on… Thank you for taking this topic. This is good to watch. 😊
2025-05-10 04:48:50
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Mark Anthony :
I have close friends in my 1st year college. We had a miscommunication until none of us took the first step to ask or clear something. Now, I'm feeling uncomfortable and alone if I am with them.
2025-05-09 13:35:24
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Gehlee :
i love my friend but we're not align anymore😭
2025-05-12 12:07:33
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Marvie gascon :
this is true when dealing with people who sometimes we love. no one is permannet.😘🌤️🌷
2025-07-07 23:36:56
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