Dr. Nicole LePera
Region: US
Saturday 10 May 2025 14:29:28 GMT
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katylovesyou2 :
Omg 👀 this is me
2025-05-10 14:34:36
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Jenny P :
My therapist told me this a few weeks ago. Everytime you make an excuse for their behavior you abandon yourself.
2025-05-10 14:52:12
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missthanggrace0 :
I still find myself protecting her even though I have so much anger toward her I can’t bring myself to bash her
2025-05-10 18:08:25
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Lily 💞 :
It's so crazy how children have to be empathic for their parents and forget their trauma pain anger and sadness. The "erasing" yourself hits home
2025-05-10 14:56:02
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Feride :
We actually enable bad behavior when we do this.
2025-05-10 15:08:20
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JustCancelMeNow :
0-45 year old me. Now she’s angry because I started making her accountable and for having boundaries.
2025-05-11 12:21:16
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sunshinezenwillow :
You’ve been hitting home w/ these posts lately! I’ve been working on healing my mother wound for the last year. It’s been difficult but good!
2025-05-10 14:36:55
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Mickey :
🎯 You’re absolutely right! I did need this. This is 100% my experience, and I just learned that I’ve been erasing myself my entire life. Thanks Doc!
2025-05-10 14:51:14
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Alexis on the Eastern Shore :
I am impacted by having low self esteem. and anger issues. when I get triggered now, I go from a pool of calm water to one that has a huge stone dropped in it. and I hate that about myself most.
2025-05-10 15:25:40
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Aye.and.the.girls :
This- but I don’t forgive her- went no contact instead- she is a wanna be homecoming queen who never grew up
2025-05-10 15:05:24
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RAD Kitty | Pole Dance Tricks :
the hardest lesson is realizing that mom's behavior has translated into other people treating me how she did. especially when I dismiss how much she hurt me. I told her once and she turned to victim. I feel drained when I talk to her to this day
2025-05-12 15:49:42
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peanut&harley :
I do the same. im tired of understanding her, she refuses to understand me. Just minimize and tell me about someone else who has it worse. like I don't need you telling me exactly what you told me as a kid.
2025-05-10 16:08:14
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NewsBuzzAû :
I have been too harsh on my kids because of my father too. A reason not an excuse. I consistently work on changing myself and my boys are 100% valid when they are upset when I yell at them or if Im being critical. I take that and I work on changing it. Our kids are valid ♡ they are allowed to feel.
2025-05-12 20:01:50
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elife89 :
Holy shit! 🤯
2025-05-10 14:46:55
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1980ish💙🇺🇸🆘 :
Mom asked why I was “being mean”, I said I was tired of lies/half truths. Instead of asking what I meant or addressing the issue she just doesn’t talk to me much now 🙃
2025-06-09 13:56:58
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Dewitrealgood :
You forgot to hold my hand first😭
2025-05-16 14:41:56
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AcendingSoul1111 :
I’m going through all this at the moment
2025-05-10 15:00:46
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Terra_the-Corrupted💙🌈 :
no wonder i feel conflicted. everytime I add myself back in I start panicking about being too emotional or taking up space
2025-05-10 17:35:36
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Nat :
thank you for the internet and professionals like you...
2025-07-27 13:32:44
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ashley marquez :
Your work is so amazing
2025-05-12 02:02:25
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Cheryl 💋💄 :
You forgot to hold my hand 😭
2025-05-10 16:59:41
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Khori :
yes
2025-05-10 18:46:20
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Nikki W :
Part 2, please
2025-05-11 04:12:16
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ashley.morris62📚🐦⬛🌦♟️🪖🌄 :
but with both parents
2025-05-20 18:59:22
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chrs8gar :
My oldest daughter doing this. I’ve offered to be accountable but she’s told me she just wants to brush things under the rug and “ be normal” my therapist said I can’t force her into therapy . 💔 I
2025-05-10 16:09:13
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