Therapy is only worthwhile if they believe they have a problem
2025-05-12 06:59:33
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Bayle Margolis :
I have been villainized by removing myself and calmly leaving it at “All he has to do is go to therapy. Then he just has to reach out to me first to show me he has changed and is really trying”
2025-05-12 02:42:19
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Daisy :
I’ve done all that…
2025-06-08 15:56:08
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Supernova Cosplays📼 :
My entire family (including my siblings) don't even know I have a partner and am getting married this fall. They will never have the privilege of being in my life and knowing my future children. They squandered that privilege years ago, and I'm done. They are consistently choosing their own egos over me, and who am I to try to force them to make a different choice? 😇 I hope my brother has fun figuring out that he was wrong to side with the abusers, and I hope my sisters (ages 8 and 5) grow up to understand why I left. My parents are narcs, and since they refused time and time again to take accountability, they lost me forever.
2025-05-13 16:00:06
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Jennifer Rocchio :
After a child becomes a Adult its on them you can do apologies and counselling all therapy in the world 🌎 trust is broken it takes mutual respect and understanding to rebuild the relationship. Emotional maturity in both adult children and parents are a key part of it❤️❤️❤️
2025-07-08 18:28:38
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Marie :
i dont understand how they dont even think of this?!?!?!?
2025-05-11 23:47:38
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Olybrighteyes :
My mom reached out saying she was ready to listen. Ma’am, I’m the one who has done intensive therapy. Why would I bother because she has done nothing.
2025-05-12 13:32:55
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Julie Ward :
Took full accountability and going to therapy and that didn’t matter. Karma’s coming. So sad that my child will feel this same pain someday. No one is perfect and makes mistakes and they are training the next generation that if they aren’t perfect, they are disposable.
2025-06-10 02:11:02
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Erika :
I always think maybe she changed and then my kids tell me she went behind my back to my ex to see the kids again and I realize, nothing has changed.
2025-05-12 02:04:30
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kyandi80 :
It reached a point where it’s the point of no return even if a miracle should happen & she works on not being controlling, vile & manipulative the second she doesn’t get her way
2025-06-12 01:24:04
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Alana :
this is to true in every case. every case is different. I've apologised. I beg the rest of the family to support her. I'm her only defender. she still hates me
2025-06-04 11:25:13
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No respect1970 :
so, what if the parent has reached out many times, offered therapy, done therapy themselves, and still doesn't get answers on why the AC went NC???
2025-05-13 05:44:50
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khw5668 :
Mr brother and I forewarned my Mom before we went NC. If behavior didn’t change we were done. It’s been over 15 years now…
2025-05-12 12:36:45
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cbgb3 :
not eveyone who goes no contact with their family has good reason, maybe you did, but not everyone does, some 3strangements are due to childhood jealousies, some are because of disability or mental illness, or selfishness, this isnt a one size fits all situation and it is not always the fault of the person who has been cut off by a family member or family members, not all people who cut off socially a family member have a righteous reason
2025-06-20 21:44:27
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cathye :
how can the parents asked to go to therapy if the child doesn't want to?????
2025-06-12 21:11:05
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Zynia :
Have you never heard of parent alienation
2025-06-30 09:00:11
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inbandcamp :
wouldn't. trust them if they did. move on
2025-06-24 14:25:17
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🔮Mrs Kathy A. :
Wooooooooooo 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 no lies told !!!!!!
2025-07-07 19:19:22
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Katherine :
Or if they would have talked to us when we tried...... Now it's done. I hope their decisions were worth it.
Love, a Late new GenX mommy.
2025-05-12 13:41:46
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Tora :
My mom’s biological father MADE the effort to change after I was born. She had been no contact with him for almost 20 years before that. But he had to PROVE he was changing, going to therapy, and was truly apologetic for the torment he put her through as punishment for being born. He made the changes. He CHOSE to change. He CHOSE to take accountability. I just wish more of these “parents” could do the same.
2025-05-14 01:48:24
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Brenda Marsh-Bobier :
ok I get there's a lot of parents like that but there are sons and daughters that are toxic too
2025-05-12 19:12:09
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David Marrs :
my sister did this until my mom died. she has soooooo much regret.
this is fafo with life. you don't always get a 2nd chance
2025-05-12 18:43:17
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ку.ѕнєl :
My severely abusive narcissistic ex husband brainwashed my daughter against me and this was after he stole my kids from me for 9yrs I didn't see them again til they were adults and she still refuses to speak to me because her dad will punish her by taking away her money, car etc... Trauma bond is a real thing. This was 20yrs ago and she still refuses to speak to me because of her dad
2025-06-16 15:58:07
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NutMeg1214🍒🍒 :
Why don’t they leave people alone my EP harasses friends and family and my poor friends are constantly having to walk away or tell him off it’s sad. I just wish he’d leave them alone.
2025-07-29 01:30:59
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user8324928359148 :
Facts. My mother has every excuse but no action, other than to randomly text me about how she’s a good mom
2025-05-21 13:17:43
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