I went to mostly white schools in very wealthy areas for all of grade school and here’s the identity crisis lesson I learned. Being a rarity in any room is seen as a threat to their mediocrity and they HAVE to put you down bc they WONT acknowledge their mediocrity. If they allowed the community, big or small, to view you as the gorgeous unique individual that you are then their own insecurities become reality and again they WONT acknowledge their mediocrity. You must be made the outlier or they can’t have faith in their conformity. And all of that is positive confirmation of what you know deep down, you’re special. Don’t conform, look in the mirror, explore your individuality without concern, your worth is not theirs to decrease or increase. Trust your heart and grow your soul. You’re a strong independent cayenne queen, earn the title.
2025-05-12 05:46:05
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LondonTru :
I’m sorry u had to go through that. Especially growing up with IG the ppl can be so mean. You’re obviously a very beautiful lady so u can clearly see that how petty they were. We’ll never be able to compete with the popular kids; but what we kan do is be ourselves. GOD bless you, u a Queen 4 eva! ✨ 🙏👸✨#weareone
2025-05-12 12:25:48
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Taea 🩷🎀 :
i’m so sorry , you got me now ✨🥰
2025-05-12 04:46:14
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Shah M :
First of all, you are beautiful. I wish you could have found some sistas to be friends with in school, but believe the ones reaching out to you now that we're all sincere about how we relate. I pray you find healing in these new found friends.
2025-05-12 23:44:05
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Purple rose :
Please continue to be healed and whole from the broken💔 part of you . You’re so beautiful and gorgeous ❤️. I’ve been crying for y’all since this trend begun. Glad U made it &you’re learning to be safe❤️❤️❤️
2025-05-20 05:41:49
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Trucker Cliff :
It’s ok young lady. You are loved, valued, and protected now.
2025-05-12 16:44:12
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Odey :
So happy you're as strong as you are to still be here. 🤗
2025-05-12 17:14:52
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Sam 💖 :
Baby you are GORGEOUS effortlessly and that’s why they targeted you
2025-05-12 16:07:00
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harrison natural :
🥰🥰🥰 Sorry you went through that
2025-05-12 04:23:59
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Chaka :
welcome to the family 🥰🥰
2025-05-12 14:02:07
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Princess :
U are a beautiful black strong Queen ♥️♥️♥️♥️💪💪💪 we 🥰
2025-05-12 23:44:38
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caramelllbabyyy_ :
Had to be jealousy for sure is why you were picked, look at YOU!🥺😍
2025-05-13 06:33:25
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Amyrica :
If you have natural red hair and natural blue eyes like we do, we are the rarest of the rare. We are literally born diamonds
2025-05-22 04:12:13
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Sheesh :
You are gorgeous! Praying for you love!
2025-05-14 19:45:57
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harrison natural :
You are beautiful
2025-05-12 04:24:21
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Princess :
God loves u sister ♥️
2025-05-12 23:47:10
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Princess :
I’m so sorry 😢 ♥️
2025-05-12 23:45:04
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Eddie Dexter Stewart :
😢
2025-05-12 06:58:28
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TrevorDGreen🫡 :
❤️❤️❤️
2025-05-12 16:11:53
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JupiterJones :
👀👀👀
2025-05-13 21:15:03
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juanevans911 :
😍😍😍
2025-05-18 14:27:05
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Head Ginger In Charge :
As for the ginger community we thank you.
2025-05-22 00:50:08
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Popular Loner :
Girlll you didn’t have a black mother to tell you them mfs was jealous!! You’re literally gorgeous..likeeee
2025-05-13 00:16:21
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liljowbry5f :
Our kids would be perfect 😍😍😍
2025-05-15 06:20:20
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