Tim Ferriss
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To the T :
Hatred disappears when a person able to hold 2 truths simultaneously: I love you, I don’t like you now. Dialectical thinking
2025-05-13 15:58:46
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user9664305005106 :
You don’t know marital hatred till you have to deal with kids too…
2025-05-13 12:56:10
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ShotOnes :
Sounds like we arent programmed for monogamy
2025-05-13 22:46:31
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Rhonnie :
When people stop romanticizing relationships and realize you're relating to another autonomous human being, it's easier to understand, relate, love and also forgive.
2025-05-14 12:07:03
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ipeakedinthe90s :
Watch Four Seasons (the original and the remake) on Netflix—they cover this and it was helpful for me to recognize aspects of my own relationship.
2025-05-14 19:50:53
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Mari :
He hid who he was for 20 years. Then he used the truth as a trap
2025-05-14 21:49:27
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Love Like Salt :
In our hardest time, we went on a date and I saw our future together. We were going to be okay, we just needed to get past having tiny babies. I let it all go and we are madly in love now. Like honeymoon in love, it’s cool.
2025-05-13 15:22:00
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hikehikebaby :
Not for every couple. Maybe early in the relationship, but for truly happily married couples, this just isn’t accurate.
2025-05-14 15:01:24
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MamaTalucci :
Hatred is a pretty strong word but I appreciate the concept behind the theory. My theory is space and grace. Grant each other a little space to cool down but the grace to come back and repair.
2025-05-15 12:32:21
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Warren Bischoff :
If you can thru that hatred regularly you can stay married ❤️
2025-05-14 00:08:45
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donald.wiest :
The term was coined by therapist David Schnarch, and the word “normal” it contains is ironic - if so many marriages have “dysfunctional” conflict, Schnarch reasoned, it would only been fair to describe it as “normal.”
2025-05-13 16:32:19
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Jewel :
To me, hatred is too strong a word. I don’t hate my spouse. I often times do not like him, but I always love him. 33 years of a solid, loving marriage.
2025-05-14 13:13:13
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mommato12 :
Every now & then, most marriages need a reset.
2025-05-15 11:09:18
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Hobbs :
This is so so true, as long as there is no adulatory or abuse of any kind stick it out! It’s a cycle of feelings
2025-05-14 01:20:17
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Mir :
is tim ever getting married
2025-06-02 22:58:01
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Kendahl Kendahl :
It’s all about respect. Once u loose respect for someone it’s hard.
2025-05-14 20:40:04
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allen edward thomas :
I think this goes for friendships too
2025-05-22 06:10:28
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Linda Wolfe | +50 UGC Creator :
This is such an important topic that it's not talked about enough. Marriage is not some fairytale can't run away when you hate your partner because in a week you'll probably love them again.
2025-05-15 03:41:31
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freeleo2020 :
45yrs argue at least once I’ve never won an argument our love grows stronger every day
2025-05-15 05:21:23
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Brain_Scout :
Hatred is a brutal way to put it. Wrong word.
2025-05-20 00:42:01
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Daisy’s Digital Cottage 🦋 :
I love this! He’s so right!
2025-05-13 09:22:43
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Dirk Diggler :
Is Tim Ferris still not married with kids? If so, so sad.😞
2025-05-15 03:13:33
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Jamie Lee :
Yess Terry Real is the best. I trained under him and use his principles in my own relationship
2025-05-13 22:06:05
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GHHS1986 :
But what if there’s no accountability? What if there’s no desire for Repair? On both sides; one has tried for accountability. The other things they’ve done nothing wrong therefore, why should they work towards Repair? Only makes the hatred worse.
2025-05-15 16:52:32
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JT :
Unless you’re stuck in contempt.
2025-05-24 08:39:09
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