@followchipper: Ever feel invisible at a party? 👀 I was at a play party last night where the people I wanted to play with wouldn’t meet my gaze — and the folks offering play weren’t what I was looking for. Cue the two voices in my head: 1️⃣ “I’m not hot or interesting enough.” 2️⃣ “Maybe it’s just not my crowd tonight — and that’s okay.” I chose to believe the second option, so I stuck around, made some connections, and ended up having a damn good time. 🐽 Chipper says: don’t turn rejection into a weapon against yourself. It stings, yes — but it doesn’t define your worth. Practice talking to yourself like someone you love. Want more of this kind of insight? Follow your snout and sniff Chipper out. #SexPositiveCommunity #RejectionIsRedirection #KinkLife #kinkcommunity #chippersays

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lkkjjjhhhh
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the words "play party" told me that I was about to hear some pseudo-therapy-language mental gymnastics to paper over the fact that this hollow, unfulfilling lifestyle is making you suffer.
2025-05-13 15:39:50
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absorbswaterandstuff
Roots :
Can’t blame them
2025-05-13 15:09:28
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beaux_dega
Beaux Dega / Ralfie :
So what are you looking for? Asking for a friend 👀... I'm the friend 😂
2025-05-12 14:20:59
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sarmientojc
Sarmiento Jc :
Maybe what you are offering is exclusive long term relationship that’s why they ran away 🤣✌🏽jk..
2025-05-12 22:36:33
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muridagli
muridagli :
What is a play party?
2025-05-13 05:28:08
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issacricher
Issac :
The difference is some of us don’t even get invited to the party….
2025-06-25 22:48:58
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mdrman104
Kaeus104 :
The true issue of failing to sit with rejection is hypocrisy. Everyone wants to be the exception to everyone else’s preferences while maintaining their own. This can also be seen as a developmental issue
2025-05-13 07:19:35
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triple__double
Hugh Jassole :
I’m sorry but it’s rough out here. It’s superficial. Maybe you’ve gotta put some work into yourself too. Look good feel better, right?
2025-05-12 20:16:11
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joewinterhalter
Joe Winterhalter :
I find that experience often at bathhouses and have those negative thoughts.
2025-07-02 13:18:41
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labradoodle94
Labradoodle94 :
Thank you for putting it out there. I just went through something like this not too long ago and I let myself get worked up over it. This is something I need to remind myself constantly
2025-05-14 03:40:31
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bigdmcgre
F :
I can see why…..
2025-05-15 03:51:09
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slingshot13942
SlingShot13942 :
I met my best friend of the past 20 years at one of those parties. We weren’t interested in each other and ended up chatting and cracking each other up. Been best friends ever since.
2025-05-13 18:56:00
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allan5744
user6128333677616 :
u need a party open to all ages all body types. a select few that have only young muscle is not a healthy environment for a normal person
2025-05-13 18:53:38
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swayzzefit
linktr.ee/rafifit :
in this case though, attraction def matters 💪😎💯
2025-05-13 01:01:45
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toperasure
Rooney :
these comments are giving republican
2025-05-15 04:48:19
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kiasyd96
Dave :
I know intellectually that taking it personally isn't productive but nothing has actually made me feel better the way being actually wanted by people has, alas.
2025-05-13 11:57:39
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twitchtvaquasharks2
TwitchTv-Aquasharks2 :
If I wasn’t married I would never reject you
2025-05-12 17:33:58
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daddymattlb
Matthew :
Wonderful advice 🤗
2025-05-13 15:07:47
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victorguerrero880
Victor Guerrero :
Yeah I would go to the bathhouse for me , I like being neked in the pool and steam room knowing others can see but not expecting anything
2025-05-13 04:38:03
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theojmg
theojmg :
I just don’t go to things like that. I can count on less than 3 fingers the number of times that I had an overall good experience and it’s better for me not to set myself up for sadness and disappointment
2025-05-12 23:24:13
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boogiethegogopup
Boogie_The_GoGo_Pup :
still learning this myself. always feel like the background character. thanks for sharing
2025-05-12 20:43:37
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tallgayblackguy
TallGayBlackGuy :
I honestly needed to hear this before I go to the JFF thing next week
2025-05-12 18:04:43
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televised_mind
televised_mind :
But how attractive you are and what you have to offer to others does, exactly in this context, play a part. Well, in their opinion.
2025-05-13 23:49:46
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helmetlang
Dingusdangle :
Nauseating 🥰
2025-05-13 19:43:17
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kingdaryl58
King Daryl :
Yeah that’s the been the general trajectory! As I got older and learned more about myself and I want it’s gotten so much better!
2025-05-13 06:55:13
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