As someone with CPTSD that can present ADHD symptoms, it's also the lack of belief that, once successful, you are able to maintain the required output to sustain that new level of success. Perhaps dealing w/ the pain piece allows for the positive track record to begin and you're off to the races.
2025-05-14 16:06:06
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MOPHO :
I blame school. Literally punishes you for failing.
2025-05-28 01:59:59
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Andrew Peters :
There is no learning without failure. The key is accepting that there will be setbacks and mistakes on the journey. As for the Ukrainian cultural practice of telling people how you "really" are when they ask, in western culture this might be considered "over-sharing". Yes or no?
2025-05-18 01:46:14
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ammiee240 :
I’d be more inclined to take risk of money wasn’t involved
2025-06-18 20:49:10
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prijh :
this is the risk that i am willing to take
2025-06-07 15:48:25
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Dancing Bear :
Of course, essentially, true. Though, perhaps, the stove analogy isn’t a good one. Do we fear pain or damage? What does pain tend to represent to us? Fear of pain, where there is no real damage, can hold you back. Otherwise it’s a calculated risk, no?
2025-06-07 07:39:24
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Paola Poveda :
i see that successful people are much more willing to lie and deceive people. does that mean i have to be willing to cope with the shame of lying to people to be successful?
2025-05-14 17:23:45
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joe n :
This is the heart of the modern angst. Being and purpose is linked to healthy struggle.
2025-05-14 14:06:24
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Michael Carey5 :
Your voice is 100 % British ? ( not Ukrainian voice ) ?
2025-05-14 12:24:15
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Awaken by Lina :
I think we look alike..
I thought it was my video
as it popped on my screen
2025-05-15 03:28:53
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MarcOosth(PhD) :
Is fear the same as avoiding pain/failure?
2025-05-14 19:49:26
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David Schloyer :
Define success. Is it material wealth? I’ve met many wealthy people who are losers.
2025-05-14 12:40:31
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NoSteinNoGate :
If pain is bad for the mind surely only proportionate risk makes sense.
2025-06-03 23:11:33
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snooze button :
i really like your videos
2025-05-28 23:56:57
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thermington :
I can’t agree more, and perfectly said! wouldn’t respect myself if I chose to avoid difficult things.
2025-05-15 04:16:12
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Driving by :
In my business, I do a several things very uncommon than other businesses in our area. However, I also provide a solution that others don’t have. But the competition are better bs sales men and have more manpower. It’s not easy.
2025-05-18 02:35:35
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rich :
great post
2025-05-14 22:16:03
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harza :
👍Highly respect and resonates. Thank You!🥰🙏👍
2025-05-14 21:49:41
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Jenny! :
Thank you
2025-05-14 20:25:17
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Ascend :
Thank you for this ...I needed that 😌
2025-05-14 19:31:10
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GTCubemonkey :
Love this
2025-05-14 18:16:29
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✨️ INES ✨️ :
100% its often not the success the issue, its keeping up with it.
2025-05-26 08:36:41
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Raluca Ciornea :
This is Gold❤️🙏🏻
2025-06-05 07:09:37
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mitchskinner742 :
are you sure about that? are you sure about that?
2025-06-06 00:46:31
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Yerlan Kozhakhmet :
😅
2025-06-06 04:56:47
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Peter H. :
I don't believe shame is essential for most humans.
2025-06-10 22:04:48
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Goldie :
you talked about conflicting ideas. Have you listened to Esther Hicks? lol!
2025-06-11 22:26:54
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Shoppenng :
I’m not trying to be like super mean but the mouth thing you do before each sentence is crazy and I can’t unsee it.. I was trying to listen to your message but 😩
2025-06-12 06:23:09
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WokeUpLikeHiss :
Could you talk about how to have a healthy relationship with shame as someone who was greatly shamed growing up just for being who they are how do we reconnect with shame in a way that works?
2025-05-21 12:59:17
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Milka Bobrovski :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-05-18 19:34:09
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Sindy Fling :
Thank you, this is so inspiring and helpful. Bad pain is trying to avoid good pain.
2025-05-18 12:42:46
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Johngenereux :
THE INTRO ON RISK-PAYOFF IS SPOT ON. FOR MYSELF, ALL THE NEGATIVES..SHAME, EMBARRASSMENT.. GIVES TOO MUCH POWER TO OTHERS. AND 95% OF THE TIME ITS NOT AS BAD AS IMAGINED!!!
2025-05-16 18:57:51
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c.l :
letting urself feel the pain is important to process and realize it's not going to kill you, life goes on
2025-05-16 09:11:40
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willow11117777 :
By far the best content on this platform 👏
2025-05-15 20:13:41
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Community Partners Realty :
Thank you
2025-05-15 11:55:59
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alexanderdias671 :
😂😂😂
2025-05-15 08:27:04
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joly :
at what point is it smart to stop touching a hot stove. 🤔😂 it never seems to burn less .
2025-05-15 00:04:21
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durga :
thank you for all that you tell us- i’ve learnt a lot from you!
2025-05-14 23:30:07
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GT :
Perfect explained first time hearing it said this way
2025-05-14 21:33:38
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THIS IS FIRE! 💥 Peek your inbox—got a gem waiting for you~ 📬
2025-05-14 17:42:17
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kathryndecoded :
Oh goodness, this hit me right to the core. ❤️thank you for this!
2025-05-14 14:49:31
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