theschooloflife
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✨🦂Natural Born Muse🌹✨ :
This requires each person to develop emotional maturity ✨
2025-05-16 18:37:36
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Mischmashx | Art :
wait so as soon as there's complexity do we just... leave?! Surely there will be complexity at some point?
2025-05-16 20:23:11
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antonstout :
Gottman’s say the opposite - they actually did the research on relationships. Some relationships start difficult and they front load the issues and work through them, making way for clarity and ease later on…honestly, I find this the ‘avoidants’ definition
2025-06-24 23:35:13
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FiddyMint :
Not the only path for sure. 30 years married to the love of my lifetime but took LOTS of work. It’s genuine and deep but was not easy. ❤️
2025-05-18 14:59:21
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Laurin :
Ain’t that the truth. Why did I waste my time trying to train imbeciles is more the question?
2025-05-17 22:53:12
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Bucky Done Gin :
TRUTH SPOKEN
2025-05-16 22:16:36
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Person :
OMG you’re the voice of TSoL!!!!!
2025-05-16 21:56:07
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luluj742 :
100% agree
2025-05-16 20:30:41
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LoulouM :
Absolutely. When I met my husband 27 years ago this just happened so naturally. No games or complexity.
2025-05-16 21:01:01
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Whisper Whisper :
All emotional avoidants feeling validated rn
2025-05-18 08:02:25
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Parlaphone :
is this guy the narrator?
2025-05-18 15:57:54
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relationalphilosopher :
From someone with 33 years of a healthy, steady thriving relationship, I agree At some point things will become more conplex, but the first few years, it was easy and good
2025-05-16 21:21:30
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Nighteyes :
Never has any relationship developed easily for me. I always had to chase everybody I liked. I'm always jealous of people who just meet and fall in love with each other with ease.
2025-05-17 03:12:08
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Amanda jane :
I love this man he's my hero
2025-05-17 12:22:52
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Sicola256 :
What I wouldn’t have given for TikTok years ago. I know exactly what you mean now but then… oh then I was in agony. And I regret that to the very core of my spirit
2025-05-17 18:58:04
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Gaily :
I think this is true of life as it unfolds. Work, passions, fear. If it’s too complicated to start, run 🏃♀️
2025-05-17 08:36:56
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Bree ♥️ :
I’ve never had ease. I’m overweight (not massively so) and men start fumbling as soon as they see me. Dating has been really quite horrible for me.
2025-05-17 07:15:04
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alan_byg :
Reality of adult relationships is different folks are working two jobs to make ends meet throwing a tantrum over a missed text is being in wonderland
2025-05-16 18:19:36
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Michèle :
What’s he’s describing is ease of relationships. And that’s very different to love in itself. Love can be pure and powerful but riddled with complexities. Plenty of ppl in relationships aren’t in love & vice versa.
2025-05-16 20:52:15
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ak1111 :
Where have you been my whole life
2025-05-17 23:37:03
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petal585 :
So true
2025-05-17 08:12:58
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elatoai :
I am bit torn by this because your essay “On Relationships” stresses that youre going to fall in love with the wrong person. And the rule of ease will stop feeling fluid because of the friction you feel loving the “wrong” person
2025-05-20 18:58:15
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Christian 🇦🇹 :
I like and agree with that rule ☺️but, i do take slight issue with "meant to work". IMHO, there is no predetermination of any sort, especially when it comes to relationships 🤷♂️
2025-05-16 17:47:52
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Libby :
I abide by it 🙏💯
2025-05-16 20:30:47
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801010rawveganfruitarian :
some people will act the person you are looking for, so they can get what they want. like when a 30 something childless female who wants nothing else than to be pregnant.
2025-05-17 11:31:50
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