@casiahwest: How about you do the dishes #relationships #relationshiphumor #forthegirls #datinginyour20s #datinginyour30s #sensoryissues #overstimulated #marriage
The hug while doing chores means they feel guilty for not helping but still won’t help
2025-05-20 12:28:32
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Kat :
It’s always when I’m either working or falling asleep. Like you couldn’t pick any other time?
2025-05-19 18:52:33
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Thatsneat :
If you grab at me while I’m doing chores you are putting intimacy in the same mental category of chores I will now associate intimacy with chores. And it’s sad when men will have all day to show affection and choose to wait until chores time? You are getting a negative Pavlov effect here.
2025-05-19 19:23:28
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Sweets💋 :
or how about the ONLY attention they give is when they want some. Otherwise im just someone to share space with😮💨😮💨😮💨
2025-05-19 19:58:55
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skilletmasterflex :
Yes! He puts his hands down my pants or under my shirt while washing dishes and I tell him EVERY SINGLE TIME not to do that and he gets mad at me every time. Ok but why is that the only time he touches me?
2025-05-19 14:29:36
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. :
it's the most freaking annoying thing
2025-05-19 20:08:27
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Yup okay :
This is the worst! They do it on purpose so they can later act up and say you rejected them
2025-05-19 18:46:09
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jajawide :
romantic? try helping her with the chores, or better yet take the initiative in doing those chores before her and you will be surprised on how romantic she can get for you.
2025-05-20 01:19:36
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ª :
Say it louder for the men in the back.
2025-05-19 19:34:17
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Amber :
It’s not just that- it’s the fact that they KNOW they should be helping. It’s a form of negging. Daring you to not respond positively to the sexual touch - making you the bad guy
2025-05-19 21:49:16
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ChelseaUdkler :
I have a theory that it’s because they can’t stand the attention not being on them. As soon as you focus on something else, they get jealous. Even of dishes.
2025-05-20 16:17:06
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Lynds ✨️ :
yesss! my ex did this once & I turned him down - he admitted later that this was the turning point for what made him seek outside validation 🙄 excuse me sir that's ridiculous
2025-05-19 17:59:25
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eyre888 :
why are they all like this
2025-05-19 20:01:10
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LC🌞 :
I’m not in the mood when I have house work to do 😅
2025-05-19 19:07:16
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CatherineH666 :
My ex did that while I was holding a pot of boiling water and got upset when I said not a good time.
2025-05-19 20:20:34
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Kelly Scott :
Yes all the time I get extremely irritated. It’s not a turn on at all
2025-05-19 18:12:22
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Elizabeth Archer :
Omg all the time. Yes. I’m touching disgusting water and trying to take care of the house. Maybe just do it for me and they my brain can turn off for two seconds.
2025-05-19 18:44:17
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laney707 :
Or when you’re pouring sweat in the middle of cooking 5 things at once
2025-05-19 22:16:00
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Lisa 🇬🇧 :
also the dishes thing could be so cute if he wasn't just leaving me to do everything around the house
2025-05-19 22:31:22
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littlebit_95 :
Or when your doing your makeup. Or trying to do literally anything, but ignores you when it would be an appropriate time
2025-05-20 22:46:24
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Alicia :
So true, every time I was cutting food with sharp knife, stop I don't want to get hurt and help with dinner instead. And the he always got "mad" and felt rejected. glad that relationship is over 😅
2025-05-19 17:39:22
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janemaree545 :
How many times do we have to scream this until they get it 🤷🏻♀️and they say the divorce came out of nowhere
2025-05-19 22:37:09
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AutumnDoe :
may this “love” never find me
2025-05-20 22:52:07
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DesertDweller :
It’s a subconscious guilty response to seeing their woman do something they should be doing. So they try to overcompensate with “affection”.
2025-05-20 21:32:44
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This app sucks :
They also tend to use SO MUCH force. Like a lil smack or touch or grab doesn’t always have to be annoying when I’m busy, But why do they have to put so much into it where my whole body moves and I fall into the counter. Like brother relax 😐
2025-05-20 19:52:54
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