@facaireddit678: I came to family for Christmas. My seat at the table had been given to my sister's new boyfriend. My mom said, "We're kind of just doing immediate family this year." I smiled and got back in the car. 30 minutes later, my cousin texted on the family chat: Thank God the downer left. I opened my banking app, closed the credit line, cancelled the birthday caterer's final payment. At 10:11 a.m., the group chat exploded with desperate messages: Don't ignore us. #askreddit #Relationship