@rabbi_shais_taub: It’s time to talk about a most insidious form of child abuse that often goes unrecognized. There are many names for it: enmeshment, emotional incest, parentification of the child. Regardless of what you call it, the devastating effects are the same. What is it and how do we avoid doing it to our kids? #enmeshment #covertincest #parentification #parentingtips #parentingtok

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elementalluna
Elementalluna :
My adoptive mother said this a lot to me . “ I drink to forget you” demanded I get her more wine I was 4 she kept saying it until I left the house .
2026-08-23 14:55:47
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tinadaniels138
TinaMarie1123 :
"You're the only reason im alive."
2025-05-22 20:39:21
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johnny_boy116
ff116 :
Overthinking 101
2025-05-21 13:21:38
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mr.cool_._
Mr.Cool 😎 :
my mom once said to my face "Go away. I can't even look at you right now" 🥲
2025-10-22 01:22:15
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afeenahsafop
afeenah 🪐 :
“You’re my pride and joy” - my mother 😬
2025-11-30 21:24:31
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be_en0
be_en2 :
my mom keep telling me that only me and my sister are the only reason she is alive
2025-12-07 23:53:18
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.euphy_
Juniper :
Was told “I only had you so I could have a slave.” And trust she meant it
2025-05-20 16:44:42
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aroberson7
amberretta :
I absolutely disagree. I was raised on love and phrases like this and I felt loved, appreciated, acknowledged, validated, seen, and heard. Be careful with believing someone who has a narrow mind and thought process. Can it be used in a negative context, yes of course….but it does not apply to all individuals. Teach your children the difference between love and toxic relationships.
2025-05-21 02:37:58
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bluelongo8
NunyangBusinessu :
Sounds like another part of the Zionist agenda to demolish the nuclear family. Straight out of The Protocols of The Learned Elders Of Zion, the Zionist play by play on how to weaken and enslave goyim. Teach us showing love and affection to our children is wrong so that they grow up looking for that validation elsewhere promoting a broken society which is easier to control and manipulate.
2025-11-27 05:50:48
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balmerisanape
Taiwan Is a Country :
lol worst? How about growing up trying to make your parents happy just to eventually realize that your infinite and hopeless effort, is what was actually being harvested. Think of the puppy futaily trying to get to a treat attached to its nose
2025-05-20 23:33:26
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existentialthinker
Existentialthinker :
As a therapist with a mother like this, this is so spot on
2025-05-20 21:25:00
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cornbabyjustin
Justin :
My mom always told me “I’m only as happy as my saddest child”. I didn’t want to make her sad so I never told her how scared I was all the time especially when I got beat by my father when I was as young as five. I didn’t wanna make her sad.
2025-05-21 02:15:49
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frayageist
FrayaGeist :
Parents should be able to say: you make me happy, but setting an example that the child is not solely responsible for their happiness in life - that is a difference
2025-05-20 21:48:38
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charlie123123123123
Charlie :
Having been a child who spent his whole life trying to make his parents happy, I agree with you.
2025-05-21 15:53:24
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jonathanortiztiktok
Jonathan Ortiz - Tatuador :
My mom used to say "You don't look like my son, they changed you in the hospital".
2025-05-20 15:56:16
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sarahb9871
SarahB9871 :
It's not my child's responsibility to make me happy, but she does make me happy. I tell her spending time with her is the best part of my day. I think it would be worse to grow up thinking your parents only spend time with you because they have to. 🤷‍♀️
2025-05-21 03:45:44
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jessicajacobson31
JezebelJ :
Really changes the song, You are my sunshine.
2025-05-20 18:06:59
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larz264
Larz264 :
I disagree
2025-05-20 21:09:02
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bullys_garage
Bullys Garage :
Ok this is out of control
2025-05-21 18:46:41
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sarahellberg25
sarahellberg25 :
I get your point. But what about saying: ”You’re so funny! I love your humor!”?
2025-05-20 19:57:47
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lilialo11
Peter :
I usually say I'm so proud of you or I'm lucky to have you. I would have no problem saying you make me happy. I'm pretty sure it wouldn't cause him to need therapy.
2025-05-21 21:51:31
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user97773033356214
user97773033356214 :
disagree
2025-05-21 07:52:15
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parrotnash
Nash🏳️‍⚧️❤️ :
Thank you Rabbi
2025-05-20 16:06:00
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..zs75
. :
OH PLEASE 🙄
2025-05-21 20:43:04
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