Yessssss I love this so much! It’s about the fun of it and being safe with each other. When those walls are down and you can be your true self nothing is better.
2025-05-21 13:52:37
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TwistyPretzel :
Sometimes my partner knows he's not going to finish so he'll let me know. It was hard to get used to at the beginning but now it's actually really cool! We are totally on the same power level - we both have all the O's we want!!!
2025-05-21 14:24:15
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lost boy :
This is unironically revolutionary. Here’s some more words so more people see this
2025-05-21 19:09:18
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Blank :
I don't fake it, I just tell my partner "hey it's not gonna happen for me" and we stop and it's so FREEING
2025-05-21 18:30:51
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HelenOfIllinois :
When I was in my 20’s, this advice would have sounded insane and impossible to me. Now I’m in my 40’s, (married 20 yrs) and I want the younger women to know that your advice IS THE ONLY WAY. It’s hard to hear, but if stopping before he finishes seems *impossible*, then you don’t have a great sexual relationship.
2025-05-21 15:47:52
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vvstardust80🍉 :
You got yourself a quality man! Hope I can have something like that someday
2025-05-21 14:32:45
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68 :
little known secret, we fake it sometimes too, for the same reason
2025-05-21 13:52:00
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McLovin🇨🇦 :
I’m wayyyy too self conscious to have her tell me she wants to just stop. I’d be overthinking everything about how I’m not good enough for her.
2025-05-22 22:28:31
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Lost Dad :
I absolutely want my partner to enjoy it and don’t want her doing things she doesn’t want to but not being disappointed at all seems unrealistic
2025-05-23 04:32:11
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DaSebs :
The center of a partnership should be the fact that it is a partnership and you are meant to be working together. If the center is on only one—more likely the man in a straight monogamous relationship—it means the axis is out of place
2025-05-21 13:54:56
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Lienka470 :
You are sooo lucky
2025-05-21 20:52:38
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That one stick of butter :
This is a huge W
2025-05-22 07:28:59
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sammy :
i tried that,was laughed at,told no,pleaded with him but it done nothing.grabbed me a second time then had the cheek to turn and tell me after ' I can control it' letting me know he prolonged the first time and could have hurried up to get off me
2025-05-22 05:57:56
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Spam On Maui :
Bookmarked and shared, thank you.
2025-05-22 02:34:05
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Livinglifethelivway 🇬🇧🏳️🌈 :
now this is one where I feel, it goes both ways is appropriate, cos men can say stop too & they don't have to feel like they have to continue. all people should have their no respected.
2025-05-21 14:36:03
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Token.discipline :
I would much rather make her happy before me. Afterwards my mind sprints in the opposite direction. Things I would overlook and or enjoy during, start to bug me afterwards. Things like smells, pain, exhaustion etc...
2025-05-21 21:07:04
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Dom :
love this! 😁 it's absolutely true!
2025-05-24 16:16:31
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UltraEnigma :
Us men fake it sometimes too.
2025-05-22 06:32:02
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Tloloc :
yea amazing what honesty brings to a relationship.
2025-05-21 20:07:06
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Ivan :
The more i learn about your husband the more i see what a treasure he is ❤️you two are such a great couple, one to be aspired to be
2025-05-23 14:33:18
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Adam Johannesson :
Great story
2025-05-21 17:21:39
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Maria Renie 🏳️⚧️ :
A note on men finishing being the end point: many men experience a huge drop in energy afterward, making it really hard to continue activities afterward. Mine was so bad I couldn't even keep up with pillow talk after, I'd just fall asleep mid conversation 😭
2025-06-30 13:18:37
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NorthMystic8 :
yes. so happy this is being talked about. this is the art of loving. ❤
2025-05-23 20:20:08
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miss mona :
This is so gorgeous to hear from a woman 🌹
2025-05-21 21:23:47
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Ducky :
My bf has sensitivity issues so he lasts a long time so he constantly checks in and I do the same for him, he recently found out what makes the water gush and now I’m just a puddle
2025-05-26 03:15:58
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