@drsarahhensley: Forgiveness is required for moving forward. But trust isn’t required, trust must be earned. #Love #attachment #relationships #fyp #foryoupage

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user82360155921592
user82360155921592 :
Was with ya until the God part-
2025-05-21 19:52:39
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valrieluxuryhomes
LIANA | LIFESTYLE |REAL ESTATE :
This is 100% correct. I’m more upset with myself that I lacked self love, respect and tolerated such poor behavior. How could I be so blind, the signs were right in my face. He was my greatest teacher tho.
2025-05-25 01:11:51
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jillnadia
JillyJill :
I can forgive. But I’m plagued with the years and years of bad memories. I cannot be the wife he wants me to be after all of the garbage I’ve been through with him.
2025-05-22 11:05:05
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homeschoolriley
catnurse :
I can’t do it. I’ll never forgive him and I need to just end the marriage
2025-05-22 10:53:57
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sunny541ne05
sunny541ne05 :
I know I have forgiven, but there is no moving forward until the unresolved trauma can be dealt with, and frankly, that is not on me anymore. I've tried. It's up to him now.
2025-05-21 19:58:22
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meansister7
Andi :
Yep. That’s a fact.
2025-05-21 19:31:05
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danielpalmer
Dan :
Also not wanting to hurt the other person. Or being afraid to hurt the other person because you have your own abandonment issues and you know what that’s like.
2025-05-21 20:54:08
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koalamarie
Marie🌻 :
What If its Not been years...at this Point its a little bit over a year and i cant anymore
2025-07-03 11:38:47
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easypeasynot
nelli_sky :
This. I feel like I’ve betrayed myself by staying. There will never be trust & love, just tolerance. I do feel stuck however
2025-05-21 23:09:19
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sarahhalllove
HallsofSarah 🇨🇦 :
I am mad because not only did I have to navigate the pain of betrayal, but also the pain of the consequences of losing my partner. I am so mad and sad
2025-06-18 00:42:33
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herawkwarddsilence
Hayden :
What do you do if the resentment took away the physical attraction?
2025-05-22 10:56:19
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rico_drums
RICO DRUMS :
Valuable 💯
2025-05-21 22:40:21
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mentalmovement
TJ :
It’s called accountability
2025-05-22 00:03:24
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mariajurado2021
Happy wife :
You’re so right 😭😭
2025-05-22 22:19:28
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nurse.jodie
Nurse Jodie :
i definitely get angry at myself more so then him.
2025-05-21 19:55:07
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kitty123410
user1450694227646 :
Yup, it took me years to realize this!!
2025-05-21 19:45:19
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srenee1121
Stephanie Hill :
It’s true. You’ve helped me so much with other intentional inner work to help me go from anxious to secure attachment. Identifying & accepting my self abandonment was such a weight lifted and my boundaries are so important and strong ❤️
2025-05-24 16:52:42
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mosslight111
mosslight111 :
I adore you but you lost me here a little bit. I have a unique case, though more prevalent as God has been showing me that other women on here are dealing with it too, as of… today. “Hey God, I love you.” But, in 2018 I had done the internal work, externally, I became an entrepreneur and experienced independence unlike ever before and after exhausting every imaginable remedy I broke. I made a big mistake and chose to end the marriage even tho my transgressions weren’t exposed. I knew, at that point, there was no going back because I had been FIERCELY loyal and dedicated for my whole life, not reciprocated emotionally, to him. So, me, being like you, I wanted to be fair for our babies. I wanted nothing but what was fair to them and our time together and didn’t leave him feeling run over etc. He, on the other hand, wanted to destroy me when, for the first time ever, his love bombing/gift giving didn’t work. So he did. Smear campaign. Gross misinterpretations, best friend is BIG family court attorney and they filed 30 things against me in like five min. I knew nothing about this system. He set me up to blow up, I did, and was kicked out by a judge and all my businesses seized, of course no babies 2 &4 and I wasn’t allowed to tell them anything either. I was their primary love. Their momma. I was homeless, penniless and had nothing that wasn’t in my truck when he did this. I was told come here and go to jail.
2025-06-03 04:42:22
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karmas.twisted.twin
TheBitchUCreated :
Nailed it!! And THAT was a Hella HARD PILL to swallow!! Once I accepted that FACT I was able to let go! The more I heal the more I realize I HAVE TO point those fingers at myself for truth & change!
2025-05-22 10:15:09
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endgames77
endgames77 :
Side note, you look so pretty. Your hair, your shirt, I love it! 🥰
2025-05-21 19:32:07
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user25451755127037
HiyaChew :
Living this pain. Me DA, wife FA. She’s mad at herself for not saying how unhappy she was. I’ve turned myself inside out in therapy since but she can’t let go of the hurt.
2025-05-21 21:49:37
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sarahkern3
Sarah Kern :
yeppppp
2025-05-21 21:16:02
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nursedani13
nursedani13 :
I have forgiven and he’s definitely changed, but every now and then a memory will randomly pop up, like him holding up our 9 yr old daughter and screaming that she’s a dirty B in her face. That kind of thing. And then I’ll hate him all over again.
2025-05-27 19:30:50
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freckles.93
AllThingsBFF :
Ouch… that’s 100 percent accurate and exactly what’s been going through my mind constantly
2025-05-21 22:46:39
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