@over_whelmed_co: Everyone says “just build a routine.” “Just stay consistent.” “Just try harder.” But ADHD recovery? It doesn’t look like that. Not even close. It looks like… → Letting the dishes sit and not hating yourself for it. → Taking a nap at 2pm because your brain needed one. → Doing half the laundry and still counting it as progress. → Resting before you collapse. → Forgetting something important—and not spiraling into shame. Recovery isn’t a checklist. It’s not some magical moment where your brain “gets fixed.” It’s the slow, quiet undoing of all the lies you believed about yourself: That you’re lazy. That you’re selfish. That you’ll never get it together. Real ADHD recovery is learning to: • Work with your brain instead of against it • Drop the guilt when your best looks different each day • Accept messy progress • And stop equating your worth with your productivity You might still miss appointments. You might still freeze in front of a pile of tasks. You might still forget what you were saying mid-sentence. And still— You’re healing. You’re unlearning shame. You’re rebuilding trust with yourself. If that’s not recovery… I don’t know what is. Save this for the days when “trying” doesn’t look like progress. And drop a comment if this version of healing feels more honest than the ones we were sold. #adhd #adhdawareness #adhdhealing #adhdrecovery #adhdvalidation #executivedysfunction #adhdwomen #burnout #neurodivergent #adhdsupport #mentalload #adhdreels #softprogress

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choosing_mylife
Selongworth99 UK :
Spot on. Took me a life time to get to this point. I ain't doing it. It can wait. And it's only now I don't feel guilty!
2025-05-24 05:42:25
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cheesemoved
cheezemoved :
There is a huge release of weight when you begin to let go of the dead weight of overthinking
2025-05-23 05:38:16
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zainzain0094
Zen Shah :
Wow I needed this ❤️
2025-07-15 03:31:08
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visual_tea
visual_tea :
I dont know what to do anymore. all the years of masking and struggling with adhd, and the anxiety, and always feeling 'different' have burnt me out. I have 12 weeks left of school. then im done. im terrified. I don't know how to get through the rest of school. and im so scared of finishing school because what do I do then? my life has no purpose
2025-06-23 09:45:50
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seeraaphiinee
Jade :
Spent the entire day doing school exams today (9 hours) and after that I did some revenge sleep time by gaming for 7,5 hours, I did eat twice today tho so its a win
2025-05-25 03:02:14
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salvatoresister101
SalvatoreSister101 :
the first slide is literally what my parents expect from me. They expect me to try and make fixed schedules and make sure I don't miss anything despite the struggle that I deal with. Pushing me into the parts I struggle with the most,expecting it to be fixed by doing it over and over again. It angers me the most.
2025-05-23 01:07:32
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tulsarix
Tulsarix :
I needed this so bad, for the past 2 weeks I've been struggling because my mom needs me to do chores but I haven't been able to help because I feel overwhelmed and have been down on myself, cuz I want to help cuz she needs it but this helps me realize it can be done little by little
2025-05-29 06:02:25
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angele_light
Angèle🇨🇦🌍🌟 :
i'm on a waiting list for autism assessment but why is this so relatable?
2025-06-13 04:43:59
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dapjan2
Dap Jan :
did I....arrive?
2025-06-09 09:32:56
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leahjade_m
leahjade :
I really needed this
2025-06-25 09:58:15
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abc76.76
abc76.76 :
I needed to see this . Thank you 🙏
2025-05-25 02:23:05
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·. ._ :
reads like it's ai written
2025-06-10 04:30:52
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stephinevents
StephInEvents :
This made me cry. It made me feel like I’ll just have to accept that I can’t fix it
2025-05-29 01:43:03
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softlydivergentt
softlydivergentt :
It’s so hard to not feel guilty about needing absolute rest…
2025-05-30 15:25:20
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candusyoung4
Candus Young :
I love this so much!!!!!!!💯❤️
2025-05-25 20:24:29
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spillthebeans1981
spillthebeans 🏳️‍🌈 :
Rest isn't a reward. 💯.
2025-05-25 10:35:38
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lotus.spinner
Nadia Dedman :
this is amazing, it's actually me ❤
2025-06-21 20:45:54
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cherryflower01
Cherryflower :
Its when survival doesn’t feel like failure anymore. I am almost there. ❤️
2025-06-18 13:36:02
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mizzkkearney
mizzkkearney :
so needed to see this 🥰🥰🥰
2025-06-12 06:34:40
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sning89
Sian :
I use the phrase, anything that is worth doing, is worth doing half 🫏, when the perfectionist gremlins try to take over
2025-06-09 01:17:27
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ohmygoshwhatnow
Jaime 🇦🇺 :
Literally just got off the phone from my bestie telling me to stop trying to be everything for everyone. 😭
2025-06-26 05:31:23
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j50712
J :
It’s taken a diagnosis at 38, counselling, therapy, meditation and mindfulness for me now at 40 to understand this! Wish I knew this in my teens 😢
2025-06-01 16:03:49
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2staffiesandapoodle
Anthony Blackmore 🇬🇧 :
Thank you ♥️
2025-06-01 18:05:54
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_dibbledabble
Dibble Dabble :
This is hitting me a little too hard
2025-06-01 20:06:38
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aramayicart6
aramayicart6 :
ty
2025-05-31 08:04:47
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