I speak as a church brother, my sisters in Christ dont marry a brother without income unless God himself has spoken to you.
2025-05-26 09:28:53
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Kedibone :
Also, as single women, we've got to stop objectifying men in the church and seeing them as objects that could fulfill our desires for marriage. Not every good-looking, educated and God-fearing brother you should look at as a potential husband. admire their beauty, their eloquence and their zeal for Christ without day-dreaming about your future together ❤️
2025-05-26 10:28:26
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Zwanani MaShabangu Mrs Dube :
A sister in our church is an engineer she married a whole chancer the way I wanted to stop her 🥺 it was obvious what he was after the sis was doing so well beautiful and glowing ask me if they’re still married 🥺💔 a whole engineer was scammed under church’s name stay woke guys no Mina I’m married just looking out for single ladies 👌❤️
2025-05-26 06:48:14
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lilly :
I have a student pastor asking me out I am a teacher have my own car after paying for the car I am hoping to buy a flat I have bin dating him 4 3 months now and already his telling me not to give lifts to my cousins
2025-05-26 08:22:14
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MsBassetteVIP_Fan :
When you go out on a date, STOP running your mouth like a tap water on what you’re looking for. Be vague, observe and keep your eyes open.
2025-05-26 12:50:57
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kelesitsem :
"You don't have to be part of someone's building story" Broke men love you 🤣🤣 GIRL!!!!!!!!!
2025-05-26 06:55:30
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MaZetZet :
Cell leader with 2 cars- Corolla & Mercedes, staying in Sunninghill desperate 4 marriage ended up a guy staying in Hillbow. She said she was gonna give him the Toyota. Wanted my opinion. I said leave that hobo alone. You have no business dating a man like that
2025-05-26 09:24:39
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Suzy :
I married a broke guy cause he was Christian, did I not regret it yooo, became Bob the builder. Got divorced though, learned my lesson
2025-05-26 11:27:49
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Pretty Lala :
The only thing single ladies in the church need to do is to be open to men that aren’t Chris as long as he is a good kind person. Very limited men in church
2025-05-26 14:02:50
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Kayyyy💕 :
Yho shame I grow up in church and at some point i didn’t want anything to do with church guys cause yho they were playing our sisters in Christ yho 😩
2025-05-26 11:17:30
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Mapiti Kgopong :
I hate it every time when the married community in church treats unmarried women as incomplete and wanting….
2025-05-26 12:34:09
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Becoming Her 👑 :
I wish my cousin sisters could hear this message because these Male pastors, l repeat male pastor take advantage of single well put working single ladies (mothers) PHYSIOLOGICALLY
Emotionally and FINANCIALLY.
THEY DM YOU WITH LIST OF THEIR RENTALS, GROCERIES, FINANCIAL DONATION LIST, EVERYTHING THAT REQUIRES MONEY....THEN TO THE WORLD THEY PRETEND AS IF THEY ARE RICH, AS IF THEY HAVE IT ALL TOGETHER. THEY LIVE AN EXPENSIVE LIFESTYLE THAT THEY CAN'T AFFORD. THEY HAVE NO BOUNDERIES TO THE EXTENT OF EVEN CALLING YOU AT NIGHT AS IF THEY ARE NOT MARRIED 😏😩😩
2025-05-26 10:29:58
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Khaya84 :
The problem is that even women who build themselves allways feel incomplete without a man. And get into these toxic romantic relationships that end up destroying them. And theres nothing that can destroy a woman more than a romantic male partner.
2025-05-26 22:35:33
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Mahle Majola :
Louder friend.
2025-05-26 04:11:17
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TherealBarbieBarbs :
Amen 😂🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🤭broke men love us and we don’t have to give in 🫣 been a target and have learnt to say NO! 😅🤞🏾
2025-05-26 05:42:33
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Aunty Angie :
increase the volume cici,i m single mom in church,i refuse to settle for less..
2025-05-26 11:31:08
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BhanQ :
marriage is not a final destination for your salvation
2025-05-26 17:54:10
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Makazi ka Yiva :
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺I hope I never slip off to the decisions I took when joining church this year. I had a brother I had a crush on, yoh I prayed those feelings away because I was like, I am not looking for love at church. All I want is to belong to a congregation for the spark to not go off. I prayed those silly emotions away.
2025-05-26 10:48:47
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mskay_Fitness :
Also, we need stop this thinking in the church of marriage as a final destination. That is why a lot of Christians marry wrong people because everything is rushed. take your time ladies to date someone, Godly dating, get to know the person, Pray, open your eyes, see the red flags and follow up on them. Take your time, the rest of your life is a very long time my sister ❤️
2025-05-26 15:18:15
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BreeBree :
stay away from church guys🤡
2025-05-26 12:14:26
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Thandiz Thandiz Thandiz :
Single Women are not treated right they treat U as if U are la ess of a human being mina bayangibhora hle I avoid abantu abanjalo at all costs..
Excluded even in Church go as far as making nasty jokes..
Do they know why u choose to be Single go that route njengoba sebengo Judge Judy maturity teaches one ukuthi U don't talk about a Journey u never travelled on..
2025-05-26 13:57:30
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_mokgadie :
you're so pretty🥺❤
2025-05-30 16:26:39
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TheeDRL :
Spirit of discernment key in everything❗❗
2025-05-28 04:37:46
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NNN~ :
Umuhle yo🥰
2025-05-28 17:07:30
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Gao :
I hear you but I see nothing wrong with being a kingdom finanacier as long its out of your freewill and its done responsibly. Even uncle Paul said
2025-05-26 09:55:10
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