@bratbustersparenting: Example of consequences for a 3-year-old? There's always two consequences for the kids with my calm leadership approach. The first one is a positive action. You get them to do something. The second one is a negative deprivation if they won't do the first, so you take something away. Positive actions could look like cleaning a window sill, cleaning out the bathroom sink, helping put the dishes away, helping dry the dishes. Something little; oftentimes it's helping you do something. The negative deprivation consequence might be 24 hour media blackout, take away their favorite toy that they play with every single day for 24 hours.Something like that. Keep in mind there is no perfect consequence. There's just the perfect follow through from you, you just follow through. You need to be 100% consistent. Not sure where to start in your calm leadership journey? Check out my BratBusters Behaviour Board (Plus Toddler Basics) that I send to my parenting newsletter, linked in my bio. Then, if you’re interested in learning the tools I teach for parenting like a calm leader, check out the BratBusters Bootcamps, linked in my bio. ` ` ` #ParentingGuide #ParentingStyles #ParentingHelp #ParentingBlog #ParentingMindset

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angelica_mariexoxo
AngelicaXO :
But doesn’t this make chores a negative experience for them?
2025-06-01 23:04:29
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laur4267
L :
my only issue with this is my 3 year old sees helping me with any task as a major positive never negative hes always been my little helper
2025-06-13 00:48:37
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nictool15
nictool15 :
I don’t agree with the unrelated consequences. That just seems manipulative and teaches them not to trust you. It seems like the imbalance and power causes people to take away things that are gifts, which should not be taken away, for instance, would it be OK if you didn’t do what your husband Told you to do and he took away your laptop that he bought you or your car?
2025-06-14 02:16:25
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maddiemanea
Cabbage Patch Royals :
My LO loves to clean so the only thing that works with her is that I will take something away.I usually catch her in the act and tell her if you choose to this then this will be taken away.
2025-07-20 14:52:47
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emmaggrev
emmaggrev :
What do you do if the first time they needed the negative consequence, and then they repeat the behavior later in the day after you’ve already started the media blackout? Take a different toy? Do you lay out what the next negative deprivation when you tell them the positive consequence after they’ve repeated the behavior?
2025-06-04 00:20:17
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nikkyrox2.0
Nikkyrox2.0 :
Yay!!!! Been WAITING on videos of examples of consequences!!! MORE videos of this more examples please!!!!!
2025-07-22 11:31:38
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beckyocon
💖✨ Rebecca ✨💖 :
thankyouuuuu
2025-06-01 15:58:22
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fay.maditsi
Fay Maditsi :
Love you Lisa🥺🥺🥺🤣🤣🤣
2025-05-27 14:14:25
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gini3572
Gini :
What happens if you have triplets? It’s difficult to teach one consequence without involving the other two who haven’t made the issue
2025-06-07 19:07:12
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k206304
k :
3 year old refusing meals. How do i discipline her? I’ve tried waiting alll day for her to eat. She won’t give in
2025-06-15 19:34:18
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lala_othman23
Lala Othman :
For 2 years old Please
2025-05-29 18:30:29
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cutcreasekarli
Karli Marino :
What if your child doesn’t communicate ?
2025-06-05 15:31:09
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abikroencke
Abi K. :
Taking things away don’t phase him anymore. I am at a loss. A reward doesn’t work either. 😩😭
2025-06-13 17:10:25
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purpz2
Purpz25 :
All of your examples of positive action were cleaning... If we make cleaning a punishment won't that discourage cleaning on their own and potentially make them think of it as a punishment as they get older and have to clean to take care of themselves?
2025-07-09 01:11:16
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teehop
TRHop :
@Ben
2025-05-28 09:14:29
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fay.maditsi
Fay Maditsi :
@Keabetswe Waha Mpufane
2025-05-27 14:14:54
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beckyocon
💖✨ Rebecca ✨💖 :
💖💖💖💖💖💖
2025-06-01 15:58:19
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rajo1273
rajo :
❤❤❤
2025-05-29 05:13:37
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leahraee_
Leah :
What about “bad” behavior at daycare? My 3 year old is hitting and pushing her friends. What can we do at home about this?
2025-07-02 23:20:02
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princessmia364
princess_peach2025 :
Consequence for an 8 year old!
2025-06-17 05:42:39
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artbuygina
ArtByGina :
example of consequences for an 11 year old.
2025-06-14 22:38:04
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