@sasha_the_therapist: The Anxious Attachment Style Attempting to Set a Boundary vs. what is happening internally. * Happy Memorial Day! Link for Deployed Spouse Support Group in my bio :)* #MentalHealth #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment
Then he gets mad and says I’m needy and too sensitive
2025-05-26 22:48:32
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Maddie🧟♀️🪲🍃🍄🟫 :
Is there a cross between avoidant and anxious like I’m fighting my avoidant tendencies and being met with anxious?
2025-05-27 12:56:45
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johnjamesh :
And then they totally do actually leave
2025-05-26 22:44:25
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misslonelyisland :
My go too is “it’s a me problem not a u problem”😭😭
2025-05-27 00:46:20
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Sarah :
I literally had this conversation with myself TODAY!!
2025-05-26 22:34:08
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Saane 🍉 :
bruh I did this sht the last couple days lol
2025-05-27 05:30:53
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Carbo :
heavy on the "now I'm ruining everything" 😭❤️
2025-05-28 19:02:19
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Kelilia :
Then he says he'll do it, and never does.
2025-05-27 21:31:58
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chitownheros :
did this and now they mention it as "communication issues"
2025-05-28 03:17:06
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jaclyngray131 :
it's a terrible cycle, I know I do it but struggle to know when to speak up and when I'm over thinking... question is how do I become more secure
2025-05-27 23:17:17
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BLASIAN_BUTTAFLY🦋🌈💙💜🩷❌ :
This is definitely me. I'll start talking or texting and it start sounding annoying and weird. 😔
2025-05-27 20:47:23
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Salty Ice Prince :
And then they actually basically said I’m too much and leave 🤪🤪
2025-06-18 13:25:26
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LeeAndVi :
i do not like being perceived in this manner...
2025-05-28 03:56:10
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Krystal_Michele90 :
How do you stop this type
2025-06-02 11:01:00
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Madelyn Slater :
I hope there’s gonna be a disorganized attachment video like this! 🤞
2025-05-27 08:05:31
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muscle-77 :
And then your avoidant partner gaslights you into thinking that asking for the bare minimum is being too needy 👍🏽
2025-07-16 07:20:38
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bookish.bekah :
DID YOU GET IN MY HEAD?? 😭
2025-05-29 02:06:57
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Natalie<3 :
This is literally me. I know he doesn’t mind though and I just need to tell him but i just cantttt
2025-05-28 02:17:35
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Obi_wan_cannoli8 :
I feel so called out in this video 😅
2025-05-27 03:19:33
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. :
i want to talk to bf about more reassurance but he said his ex was always asking for reassurance and it bothered him, so i’m afraid to bring anything up out of the fear he’s going to feel the same way about me
2025-06-07 22:26:47
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Michellemabelle :
So what I’ve learned is that as someone who is anxious you need a secure partner so that your attachment system won’t get triggered and if it does they can give you reassurance. Just don’t date an avoidant
2025-06-03 06:59:06
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julietozer5 :
Me!!!
2025-06-15 16:02:10
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Haley :
When I end up apologizing every time I try to express my needs 🤪
2025-05-28 09:30:17
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Solo Dolo :
😭I am too much as a anxious. But im working on it alot. Its just difficult when you only have one friend an i cant lose that. Just wish i was normal an wasnt like this. 😞
2025-05-27 06:04:55
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Sierra Schlussel :
The fawning response is so real when you have an anxious attachment style
2025-05-27 19:01:45
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