Dr. Kojo Sarfo
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Monday 26 May 2025 23:39:08 GMT
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Chubbycupcake86 :
okay but you didn't demand that she find the remote you asked can you help me find the remote...... ( ask for help and demanding are two separate things) What would be the outcome if someone in customer service would use a commonly word phrase " Have a nice day" to someone who has demand avoidance.. are they going to have a total meltdown... 🤔 Have a nice day is a pretty demanding sentence
2025-05-31 14:39:17
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Jessica Stillwell :
The rage I have when my husband asks me to help put groceries away as I’m walking in to help is unmatched
2025-05-27 01:44:49
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Karley blaze :
And also he could have ya know looked up and been more aware of the fact I was already looking
2025-06-14 18:23:18
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Aeryn Waff :
can we get a video showing healthy navigation of demand avoidance? the way you portray this here puts all the responsibility on the relatively neurotypical partner and doesn't account for the autistic person who can also do what they can to regulate their demand avoidance response. you cant always know that your autistic partner was already doing what you were asking them to do so its an unfair illustration of this situation in real life and an unfair concentration of responsibility🙄🙄🙄
2025-05-30 18:45:06
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Ellis2EZ :
All she had to say is “yes babe I found it” that’s it
2025-06-14 10:25:31
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Krystal Edming :
how do we go about when your partner does this and it makes u have the avoidance demand and than proceeds to make you hug and kiss them after triggering this kinda response it feels like a double whammy and when triggered like this it normally ends up bad.
2025-05-31 13:58:21
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Drexagon :
That looks like the most uncomfortable couch ever
2025-05-27 05:27:18
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Michelle McGuire :
I can relate. I hate it when someone tells me to do what I'm already doing
2025-06-16 04:39:52
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Matthew :
I'm really trying. I swear, I am.
2025-06-04 05:01:42
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TheBernBug :
It’s so tough to navigate this! As a ND person, our desire to have some kind of autonomy is important. I think often others feel like they have to intervene in order for something to be done. It’s a win for us when we’re doing something without being asked/told. So when someone chimes in and takes that control, it feels like there’s a shift to where now we’re only doing the task bc you’re telling me to, not bc I took the initiative. Losing that autonomy. It’s wildly frustrating. I’m sure it is for the NT person as well.
2025-06-02 02:12:15
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Patty Ann :
I wonder if the rage I feel when help is offered after I’m already doing something myself 🤔
2025-05-30 11:26:02
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toxzjm :
I have the same issue when I’m told to do sum but also I don’t make my partner feel bad when she asks me to do sum and she’s not looking at me or anything like that is different then when she’s looking at me and then doing it but also it’s different for everyone ig
2025-05-31 04:51:13
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Katerina Richardson :
this perfect.
2025-06-01 12:43:33
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Healing Time Travler :
Yessss 🤦🏾♀️
2025-05-29 14:58:17
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💚 December Capricorn 💚 :
Yep💯
2025-05-27 14:01:57
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JAM.mom_mzraiderette.2u🖤🖤🖤 :
💯💯💯💯💯
2025-06-01 03:52:14
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kevindobbins70 :
🔥
2025-05-31 15:13:50
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michellec1083 :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-05-31 15:01:59
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Stuart Blackwell :
😳
2025-05-31 04:13:22
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Pinky :
🥰
2025-05-30 14:40:17
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Trista :
❤️
2025-05-29 08:57:27
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Nick Stewart :
😂😂😂
2025-05-28 12:36:30
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Shayy❤ :
😂
2025-05-27 13:26:32
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Settlefree :
Awwww man, it sucks that I’m going to remain single, cause I’m not about to be dealing with all of this!
2025-05-31 21:48:19
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MissChrissB :
I don’t think they care tho 😆
2025-05-26 23:47:11
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