@reddit9980: I transferred $10,300 to help my family fix the roof. Then got a call from my cousin: "By the way, you're not invited to the housewarming. It's mostly close family." My mom added, "You'll understand someday." I just smiled, froze the renovation account, and pulled my name from the mortgage. By morning, I had 42 missed calls and they were outside screaming through the intercom. #reddit