Dr. Vincent Barbieri
Region: US
Tuesday 27 May 2025 12:56:44 GMT
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Bethany Chishti :
“No one’s thinking about you, they’re thinking about themselves!” Girl I’ve heard them
2025-05-27 23:56:32
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worrywirt :
“my mother” - we all say in unison
2025-05-28 21:53:02
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Cade :
My mother talked about everybodyyy 😭
2025-05-27 23:46:07
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But I Am Le Tired :
Well this explains my entire life
2025-05-27 16:09:45
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Kay :
I remember the day I saw my mom immediately say something negative about the waitress the second she walked away and it suddenly clicked why I always get anxious that people are talking about me as soon as I leave a room or gathering
2025-05-27 18:33:59
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mishka :
Growing up w caregivers like that absolutely destroys you. Even after you unlearn it the fear is cellular lmao
2025-05-27 20:03:11
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patty.mouse :
Yes, my baby boomer mother. Non stop.
2025-05-27 17:08:32
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Emily Joy :
Next step is to internalize RuPaul’s words: “what other people think of me is none of my business.”
2025-05-28 12:18:22
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randomonium :
This is precisely why I can never 100% believe the "No one is thinking about you" talking point... in many cases that is simply just not true. People are judgmental and gossipy as hell.
2025-05-28 10:49:16
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Mrs Pitter Patter :
Teens and adults seeing how critical people are online over just about anything.
2025-05-27 23:36:31
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Aidan O'Connor :
this goes for yourself too, a lot of helping myself be less anxious was to stop viewing other people so negatively
2025-05-27 22:39:29
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•𝑘𝑎𝑡𝑒• :
Is this why my social anxiety only comes out around certain people
2025-05-27 14:59:11
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Mldhall :
My mother has always done this. I remember being a little girl and she always talked unkindly about everyone!
2025-05-28 00:01:48
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haleybigbee :
Growing up my parents heavily criticized and made comments about everyone around us and it made me deeply insecure and anxious my whole life. Didn't heal from it until well into adulthood.
2025-05-27 21:05:51
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YeyaX :
The difference when you’re around ppl who are uplifting and supportive is unreal. Anxiety melts awayyyy
2025-05-28 14:32:43
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charliebob. :
Mom is like this, I’ve went low contact and working on no contact
2025-05-27 14:56:05
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Anthony Rannow :
If they are talking about others negatively so freely in front of you, they are undoubtedly comfortable talking about YOU negatively behind your back.
2025-05-27 19:13:54
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Brittany :
took me way too long to make the connection between "why does my mom always have something to say about people's appearance" and "I wish I was invisible"
2025-05-28 13:48:31
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Shona :
well this explains a lot
2025-05-29 01:37:56
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Busy Bee :
yup yup grew up listening to my mom gossiping on the phone. ppl always talking shit.
2025-05-27 14:34:33
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vanilla_b_ :
Omg so it’s my dad’s fault. I knew it.
2025-05-28 15:48:55
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ellielylu :
This is why in families where 1 kid is overly criticized & 1 isn't, the kid that isn't will still have tons of anxiety. Just expressed differently. 😭
2025-05-29 15:36:18
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✩.⋆˚✧ ☾ soph ☾ ✧˚⋆.✩ :
my mum would comment on peoples weight, clothes, skin, hair, the way they talked or walked, and then she wonders why I've got crippling social anxiety (and yes she's a boomer)
2025-05-28 16:37:30
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RON :
this explains so much, having been brought up in a critical environment
2025-05-31 23:52:46
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Angelique Georges :
So all of our moms gave us social anxiety? Got it.
2025-05-28 21:50:59
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