“Get your own so you don’t have to depend on a man.”
2025-05-28 10:20:08
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Kia :
She told me to not have babies and that’s the best advice she gave me tbh
2025-05-28 10:57:04
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Sunshine :
You are correct. I’m 32 now , no kids , no husband. And my mom wants grand kids… howww???
2025-05-27 23:36:03
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Ontaria :
most parents are single. they can’t teach what they don’t know
2025-05-28 11:40:24
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Goddessoflove 💕 :
bc depending on a man solely for everything will have you broke, destitute, and impoverished. They didn't want us to go through what they did and settle for less and I'm grateful to them for that.
2025-05-28 04:48:07
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Blanche :
2 black parent home & I wasn’t even allowed to be friends with boys my only advice was don’t bring home a white boy I was basically fed to the wolves seriously
2025-05-28 01:09:36
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Aja — Atlanta Realtor :
Please read “Marry Well, Black Girl” by Crystal Wallar. I suggest it to every black woman! That book changed the way I date completely.
2025-05-29 03:16:57
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chanells_8 :
My momma didn’t teach me, because her momma didn’t teach her… because my nana didn’t teach her and so on. But ME… I tell my girls.
2025-05-27 23:14:23
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monae0617 :
No one taught me how to date and I’m still figuring it out
2025-05-28 05:25:01
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SydSyd :
They teach us independency bc a lot of our men show that we can’t depend on them and on the flip side of that, black parents are also not teaching sons how to be husbands and leaders. It’s really a terrible cycle.
2025-05-29 17:03:17
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Lexx ❤️ :
I seen someone say, if you don’t expose/guidance your daughter, a narcissistic man will. 🎯
2025-05-28 11:33:14
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Jasmine Houston :
Yes!!!! I found out so many terrible lessons just from not knowing anything about dating.
2025-05-28 02:30:48
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legacyofpretty :
Being an ugly duckling introvert taught me what I didn't want. Watching friends make bad decisions.
2025-05-28 09:58:24
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🎶🎶🎶 :
My mom (almost 80) recently admitted they didn’t KNOW how to date. They can’t tell you what they don’t know.
2025-05-28 02:45:44
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Jada Foster :
Yes! we are taught independence not to value partnership😩
2025-05-28 21:15:24
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Ivori Balas :
I would rather be taught to always be able to take care of myself than be raised to rely on someone else in every lifetime!!
2025-05-28 15:04:32
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Strawberrylavender :
Grew up with mom and dad in the house hold never had “the talk”
2025-05-28 12:37:44
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Bree💕 :
Same! And don’t dare bring up the idea of even liking boys. That turns into a whole lecture on pregnancy. Now I’m 30 with no kids, no husband, nothing lol.
2025-05-28 11:11:09
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Quela Sheely | Outdoor Living :
Stop that’s why I’m struggling to get a man😭my people didn’t play that talking to boys. Education first
2025-05-28 09:14:03
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Ella Bella :
Why are black women taught if you date you’re not goal oriented? other race of ppl do it all the time. When did dating equates depending on a man? You should still have your own while dating or working towards your goals
2025-05-28 07:40:07
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hillorybanks :
I love my mom but she didn’t teach me anything. She basically told me what NOT TO DO
2025-05-29 18:30:35
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Babygirl❤️ :
Yes other cultures raise their daughters AND SONS for marriage. Most times in other cultures you’ll meet men that automatically take on a posture prepared to be a husband.
2025-05-28 06:39:47
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Stayofftheporch :
Never got the talk. Was told don’t date or talk to boys and “don’t get pregnant” but no talk no nothing
2025-05-29 10:29:56
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