if you know you’re moving and under no circumstances want to do LD, why date? why go on dates? i’m sure she also feels crushed you dropped that bomb on her after getting to know each other and building connection
2025-05-28 22:04:23
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Becca :
Should’ve kept it going !! Doesn’t matter
2025-07-13 18:14:24
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Alli (: :
not to hate just generally curious, if you know you can’t do long distance, and that you possibly will be moving why date right now?
2025-05-28 21:29:19
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Jenna Fess :
Finding connections is so hard but the honesty with yourself and each other is amazing
2025-05-28 17:51:46
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Little Rosey 🦝 :
As someone who people keep doing this. It hurts. It feels like wow you just wasted my time. If it’s not then moving in a few months it’s them suddenly deciding they don’t want long term.
2025-07-06 17:38:07
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bee2behappy :
i’ve learned each chapter, good or bad, still make a book
2025-05-28 13:24:40
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at_pink_horchata :
I’m going through the exact same thing and the same age this was nice to see from a man’s pov:)
2025-05-28 17:31:37
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vbambi.290 :
OMG what happened ???
2025-05-28 20:13:36
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haywoodjablohmi :
Did you also get kicked? 🥺
2025-05-28 15:33:14
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Lexi :
BROOOO. I’ve been so f depressed because I broke things off with a guy (we only hang out 2 weeks) I felt I had a great connection because I’m moving back to Mexico in 2 weeks and I was spiraling non stop and couldn’t understand why I was sooo hang up on him and when you said “real connection is rare, and letting go of something good because of timing feels like grief” YOU JUST MADE MY YEAR WITH THIS I finally can understand what I feel. TY!🥹🤍
2025-06-22 15:25:35
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Connor :
I’m 25 and in the same boat as you bro. Learning that no answer from someone is an answer
2025-05-29 01:30:57
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Sadie Ann🍩⚡️🍭 :
Well I’m gonna be close to Charlotte so you’ll have me if you get lonely!! Always here if you need someone
2025-05-29 00:35:16
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Meg Smith :
I say go for it! Even if you know you’re moving, you never know where things might go and you guys could always see each other for the next few months until then. You never know!
2025-05-29 00:13:14
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❤️ :
This was SO well said
2025-05-29 01:12:22
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The Flower Lady 🌸 :
You mentioned moving to NY, best of luck deciding! Its crazy out here but I love all the friends I made. Dating is meh, hope is good for you.
2025-05-29 01:05:33
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Joyenia Cabrera :
Grief in slow motion. That’s it. That’s what it felt like 😭
2025-05-29 00:47:28
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Kannin.a :
God will bring you the person at the right time. I know waiting sucks
2025-05-29 00:49:29
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diana_gby1 :
I wish this clarity and maturity for my you her siblings, I wish that at 27 I could’ve made the mature choices…. You’re doing good 🥺💯👏
2025-05-28 16:07:36
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Himothy :
are you in Long Island ?
2025-05-29 01:02:17
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Em :
Good for you. It sucks but I’m learning when to hold on and let go:) clt native here!
2025-05-29 12:09:20
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subclub96 :
I was 27 and rebuilding two years ago, and now I’m 29 and finally moving into the castle I took time to build. Letting go makes room for things you couldn’t conceive before. One step at a time, you got this!
2025-05-29 02:32:56
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Keira Blu :
Beautiful video man
2025-05-29 15:07:01
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nikki 🌟💗🤭🌷🫧 :
this was actually so comforting for me to listen to .. i need to give you a hug now
2025-05-29 02:01:00
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allison 🌞 :
Totally not the point of the video but I do love me some Lenny’s Bagels, doubt NC will have bagels like theres so enjoy em till winter!
2025-05-29 01:48:35
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