@leanotfromparis: A compliment? From a stranger? What is this? Some kind of trap? You want money? You want me to compliment you back? Honestly, as a French girl, this American habit felt so weird at first. Because in France, let’s be real: if someone compliments you out of the blue… You think twice before responding. It might be harmless, but it might also come with strings attached. I’m not saying French people are ALL transactional. But let’s just say… kindness isn’t always our default mode. So we get a little suspicious when it shows up uninvited. But here? In the U.S.? Strangers compliment your shoes. They smile at you in the street. They say "have a great day"—and mean it. It’s so simple. So human. And honestly? It feels really, really good. — Are you one of those people who randomly compliments strangers? If yes—never stop. You’re making the world better. And now I’m curious… 👉🏽 What’s one thing Americans do that people don’t really do elsewhere? Tell me below—I’m still learning every day. #livingabroad #movingabroad #lifeabroad #expatjourney #expatlife #expatcommunity #expatexperience #expatstories #expatlife #expatliving #expatlifestyle #expatblogger #loveamerica #françaisauxusa #unitedstatesofamerica

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distinctlyunremarkable
distinctlyunremarkable :
It’s weird, but complimenting a stranger is often the best part of my day. Just letting another person know you see them feels mutually rewarding.
2025-05-30 23:43:27
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dee_lyn_l
Dee 🫶🏻✈️📚 :
In the wise words of Dolly Parton, “If you meet someone without a smile, give them yours”
2025-05-31 02:46:02
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pemberlee
Pemberlee :
She’s a girls girl. Women who lift each other up are the best
2025-05-31 01:37:38
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cbnash77
Dinky Fleming :
I’m glad to hear that you take that with the kindness it’s intended. A lot of Europeans think it’s “fake” but it’s really part of our culture.
2025-05-31 17:53:40
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downtomarxgirl
down to marx girl :
I got a compliment in Paris, and I had to do a double take to make sure it wasn’t a setup. It was another person from the states though who was also visiting 😂
2025-06-01 15:25:28
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david.scott.upstate
David :
I’m glad you’re having this experience. Most Americans are kind and caring
2025-05-30 23:06:28
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phxguy2
phxguy2 :
this means I can't compliment or talk to strangers when I'm in Europe? sounds kinda sad 😢
2025-05-31 05:49:21
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professor_knuckles
Professor Knuckles :
“Free Kindness” is as great a compliment as I’ve ever heard. Thank you!
2025-05-31 03:29:08
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dywkr0080bze
dywkr0080bze :
A little girl, probably 7 or 8, told me she really liked my hair a few months ago at the gas station. I'm 49 and it lit me up the whole day. I'll never forget it.
2025-05-30 23:33:12
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mrs.prkr1
Mrs.Prkr1 :
We, Americans, have this thing we call “pay it forward”, you might know about that already. If not it’s something to come to know.
2025-05-31 13:52:15
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louisfriend3
LouisFriend :
I remember going to san raphael, france and we werent allowed into two different establishments because we were american. Kindness costs nothing.
2025-05-30 23:18:00
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canooter
Canooter :
Nice jacket, fam. Denim looks good on you.
2025-05-31 00:04:47
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lovee_zz
zz cutie :
I'm glad you're enjoying it here! I hope it continues.
2025-05-30 23:15:45
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7nomadoffical
7Nomad :
Most people that talks to worst about America has never been
2025-05-31 09:23:42
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heatherg959
Just Heather :
Complimenting strangers is important you never know what kind of day they are having
2025-05-31 09:14:10
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i3iriian
Brian Rodriguez :
kindness doesn't cost a thing
2025-06-01 20:27:49
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pjtippett
pjtippett :
Never understood when foreigners thought our kindness was insincere. Believe me if we don't care, or don't want to we won't.
2025-05-31 07:53:40
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kit01878
user8317982991881 :
it’s just who we are
2025-05-31 00:01:40
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lady.bird624
Lady Bird :
So sad that they are so unfriendly. 😕
2025-05-30 23:06:01
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jvbooklover
jvbooklover :
A man walked past me at a grocery store. He said I like your hair. just after going to hair salon. made my day 😁 I compliment all the time
2025-05-31 17:16:16
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lakergirl62
HumanApprentice :
With all the horrible things going on now in our country it's wonderful to be reminded about the good things too. Thanks for sharing. 🥰
2025-05-31 19:52:27
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waltdisneydad
waltdisneydad :
I complimented a server’s eyeglasses in Paris, and he thought I was asking him for them, his response being, ‘No, these are my glasses…’ 😂
2025-06-01 15:01:21
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ssshhh_im_batman
ssshhh_im_batman :
I never thought id see the day a French person is saying good things about Americans and america... did hell freeze over or something? either way, welcome to america!!
2025-05-31 00:56:05
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