@anxiouslyalej: When his words and actions don't match... Believe the behavior. Avoidant men don't process their emotions - they repress them. Repressed emotions don't disappear.. They leak out in sarcasm, backhanded compliments, and passive aggression. It's not mixed signals. It's emotional avoidance. Men aren't complicated. He treats you how he feels about you. Watch his behavior. That's your answer. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #datinginyour30s #datingcoachforwomen
Spot on. My ex would make “jokes” and then call me too sensitive when it would upset me. They’re absolutely not joking.
2025-06-02 02:12:50
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💛Chrissy☀️ :
💯..he waited for me to end it so he could blame me for everything
2025-06-02 00:46:18
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goracio25k :
A powerful reminder to trust actions over words. Behavior truly speaks louder than anything else.
2025-06-02 00:41:46
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Abby | @dearfuturebookclub :
The jokes are huge. Truth in humor. 🔥
2025-06-02 05:28:20
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Cathy🦋 :
It's narcissistic behavior!💯
2025-06-03 10:32:12
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Miss_Ready_Freddie🧿 :
But when you hold them accountable for their actions, they deny it and say you’re overthinking 🙄 I’m exhausted
2025-06-02 04:42:29
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Healing23 💙🦋 :
When actions don’t match words that’s manipulation.
2025-06-03 00:21:14
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Cuteesgalore_backup :
We always see and feel the 🚩 🚩 but let emotions overpower our intelligence!
2025-06-02 04:00:55
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Noydb :
Yeah my ex said horrible things to me when he was drunk then acted like he didn’t remember what he said the next day 😒
2025-06-02 01:32:51
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1234.1j.abc :
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS…
2025-06-02 04:13:11
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Misstr33 :
So true, he showed me who he really is by his actions. I finally got it, he didn’t respect me and he was using me! No contact has been a blessing!
2025-06-02 14:41:20
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Valentina :
he walks ahead of me but he tells me that he loves me
and he's angry he ignores me
when he's mad at me he despise me
but he told me that he loves every time he has to opportunity to
2025-06-21 03:16:36
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🌟🌻Minimalista12🌻 🌟 :
yes, when actions dont match words thats a sign to run away
2025-06-02 02:26:29
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Wisecracking Blonde :
if their words were true we wouldn't have to keep having the same conversations over and over again
2025-06-02 20:42:00
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🍃🍄 Florence Welch + Co 🍄🍃 :
So glad you added when he’s joking. Those jokes tell it all.
2025-06-28 11:58:28
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imunikequeen :
There is nothing better than me I’m the best he ever had in his whole life 💯💯facts jack
2025-07-08 13:52:40
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carmachameleon44 :
🔥When they show you who they are …. BELIEVE THEM🔥
2025-06-06 17:54:51
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Melissa Jo :
Na, I did that. His words said no and his actions said yes and he still said no… so actions AND words need to align
2025-06-02 01:03:32
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The Finance Baddie® :
This is so true!
2025-06-02 06:21:57
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ocasio51 :
I am going through that right now it hurt so bad
2025-06-02 08:09:34
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UGO OMERO :
I already left him. I feel validated…😌
2025-06-03 07:51:15
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Salem.Switch.Trials18 :
the look is extremely gathered this video,hun 🫰🏻✨
2025-06-02 02:38:34
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Jane :
His behaviour said everything that I needed know. Same with his “jokes” and “compliments”. Now I am detached and will leave once I’ve spent his inheritance. I will also take that money to put in my exit fund.
2025-06-02 16:39:44
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