@drruthannharpur: Struggling with an avoidant partner? 🚫 Don’t fall for toxic advice that tells you to play games or pull away to trigger their fear of losing you. In this honest and compassionate video, we cut through the noise and explore why avoidant partners retreat, what it stirs up in you, and how to respond without creating more distance. Learn how to break the cycle of push-pull dynamics and build true emotional safety. This is your guide to navigating avoidant attachment with clarity, integrity, and zero manipulation. 💬❤️ #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantPartner #RelationshipAdvice #SecureAttachment #EmotionalIntimacy #ConsciousRelationships #NoMoreGames

Ruth Ann Harpur
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Monday 02 June 2025 08:57:20 GMT
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dspshake
Dspshake :
Hi have you ever been in a committed relationship with a dismissive avoidant? It’s absolutely brutal. You’re literally starved of everything with living for and question everything about yourself constantly. What I dont like is “experts” giving advice when they’ve never lived through this
2025-06-08 22:26:09
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dolceadita
HeyItsAda :
I don’t like that too. But we know that going after them them doesn’t help, but pushing them even further. So how if not through no contact we can stop them from running away? I know he loves me and I do too, but what to do after a person ghost you?
2025-06-02 20:18:58
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miss_jamaimah
Miss_Jamaimah :
He discarded me and blocked me . Actions speaks louder than words . I walked away gracefully and respected his decision 🙏🏽
2025-06-03 07:30:39
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lil_t_1386
T :
I tried for 2 years, still got destroyed 😅
2025-06-05 06:50:16
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minheinkhant.ak
Min Hein Khant (Aung Kaung) :
this. 💯
2025-06-03 13:32:21
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appl2222333
Two_row :
What if we’re in no contact and she ended things
2025-06-02 11:32:37
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astatrofar
astatrofar :
This is such an important take. I can’t believe some of the stuff I find on here on this matter. Who wants to get stuck in a play?!
2025-06-02 18:31:47
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deadtome26
deadtome26 :
i’ve honestly gave him a last message telling him i understand and i want to hear him despite him blocking me for a month but at some point it gets so disrespectful talking to someone who is basically blending into a wall.
2025-07-20 22:38:34
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mrhubzie
Hubzie :
Any content advising to have a relationship with an avoidant is toxic… even that video. Only advice: protect yourself, heal if needed and move as far away as possible. Otherwise you’ll end up drained and burnt.
2025-07-13 18:43:03
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