@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: As if the pain of being in a narcissistic relationship is not enough, the aftermath of that relationship can be even worse. Let me know in the comments which one was the hardest for you and why. And if I missed something, let me know that, too! #narctok #toxicrelationship #narcissist #therapistsontiktok
I miss the bubbly, optimistic, full of life girl I was before him.
2025-06-02 16:01:56
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GaryO65 Gen❌ :
Those are certainly all valid, and I experience them however, for me, it was the shame for having allowed myself to give everything in me to a person who was both unwilling and unable to reciprocate.
2025-06-02 13:42:16
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rita🌷 :
Realizing they dont care if you live, suffer and are hurt by their endless betrayals is gut wrenching. I went through a withdrawal, my mind and body suffered damage. 25 yr marriage and none of it mattered to him. Not one thing.
2025-06-02 15:02:50
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nonamejou :
Regret of having stayed too long knowing that it was all a lie AND he never existed
2025-06-02 16:00:08
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username01 :
losing myself and becoming someone I didnt even like.
2025-06-03 04:18:36
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user8225808386335 :
Yes. All 5. I also had a hard time with the shame.That was awful.
2025-06-02 13:51:56
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Cinnaberi :
All 5. It’s a horrible feeling. Still going through the ups and downs. It’s a long process, unfortunately.
2025-06-02 14:00:12
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Chris Claw :
All the above. It’s like being perpetually stuck in the twilight zone until you process all of it and accept what happened.
2025-06-02 13:57:22
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The Cause of Christ (Jen) :
All 5 for me. I felt like I was in a living nightmare when I realized that the whole time I thought I was in a “Christian” relationship, that I was actually dancing with the devil. BUT GOD. He covered and protected me throughout it all. ♥️🙏
2025-06-02 14:37:42
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unofficialshrinkage :
Realizing they never loved me… by far the hardest part.
2025-06-04 19:42:18
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Big Mike :
it's been a year. the amount of mental and physical abuse i endured I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
2025-06-02 14:49:11
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SuzyQ :
grieving someone who never existed.
2025-06-03 04:28:48
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Tina Somers Simmons :
All 5. It’s a horrible feeling. Still going through the ups and downs. It’s a long process.
2025-06-03 01:35:42
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Christina ❌ :
All of them 🤔 I’m 2 years down the road and still struggle
2025-06-03 01:45:56
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meganrudnyaiscanl1 Meegs :
Realizing 27 years and 3 sons was a joke to him 😭🙄🥺😞and I still miss him
2025-06-02 15:24:53
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Alison :
It’s a complete cluster. I don’t think you can pick, not to mention the neurochemical withdraw. That’s what it’s so painful.
2025-06-02 15:36:01
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Not my Circus :
the betrayal trauma, not even from her affairs but #1, the rumination was unbearable
2025-06-02 16:16:56
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Faithfully Rebuilding :
Missing someone who never really existed.
2025-06-03 00:59:24
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robertgreen3715 :
I suffered thru all of those things, and nobody understood, I had to discover on my own what had happened, this is terrible pain. thank you for educating me .
2025-06-02 15:30:52
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Moniraedesigns :
All above
2025-06-02 15:14:58
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E C Zeus :
4 out of 5 I’m a strong women and he cannot break me
2025-06-02 21:35:51
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Sonne :
Yes, I’m in counseling but don’t feel like she really understands what I went through or am going through now.
2025-06-02 14:08:27
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♎️Fadia♎️ :
2 , I never thought that he could be number one liar specially when he used to tell me he hates liars
2025-06-29 15:23:15
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kumkanikazi#kgoshigadi#Queen# :
All
2025-06-03 06:27:30
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speshiessss :
1. because I find it hard to believe I'm lovable anyway 😅
2025-06-06 20:44:27
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