Being overly obsessed with watching tv too. Escapism.
2025-06-06 16:27:19
435
Cybil :
god forbid a man has hobbies
2025-06-03 19:24:49
121
Fbhdns :
This list is 100% my avoidant boyfriend
2025-06-03 19:34:40
305
Joana 🇵🇹🇳🇱 :
It is not like women don't have problems, traumas and hurdles, but society only cradles men 🤔
2025-06-03 21:31:24
147
Bz_7 :
How do I stop gaming addiction?
2025-06-02 16:18:50
6
Katlynne :
“ why shouldn’t I be allowed to have hobbies and do what I love”… I don’t know what to say to this. I feel gaslit that my feelings don’t matter.
2025-07-04 01:45:24
11
plushooman :
Question, what if the crypto trading was constant profit would that that still be considered a temporary high ?
2025-06-02 21:27:31
10
nichole 🖤🍒 :
These can go for women as well. I have been #2
2025-06-09 00:47:14
0
Brandon Goldie :
So trying to improve yourself by investing in stocks and crypto trading makes you an avoidant? Interesting
2025-07-27 07:02:19
0
Jenn :
Can we talk about the obsession with fantasy sports?
2025-07-26 12:16:28
0
Spicypickledealer :
Stock and crypto trading? When is it not just considered investing? When its Day trading? 🤷♂️
2025-06-06 08:14:52
0
J.swog :
Checks all 3 boxes (especially the gaming and drinking). I am struggling and don’t know how much longer I can do this alone. He prioritizes everything else, but his wife and kids.
2025-06-23 09:54:28
0
rach 🦋 :
my bf plays video games usually all day after he comes home from work and he is 100% an avoidant
2025-07-26 13:45:25
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naomi :
oh my… the more i learn more i learn about avoidants the clearer it gets…
2025-07-27 16:28:20
0
WakarlaStudio :
Me. But not into alcohol or gaming
2025-07-17 04:22:36
0
Sarah Jane :
You just described all 3 of my exs so
2025-07-25 10:28:11
0
Ted E Bear :
It’s not that gaming is easier. Men get praised in games for accomplishments and belittled in real life. People tend to go where they feel acknowledged
2025-06-06 11:44:59
34
Bart :
And I don’t care about being avoidant anymore every being let down so much. For me it’s gaming and stock trading. And work and kids (when they are with me).
2025-06-03 08:17:06
4
Julie rose :
No
2025-08-30 19:03:07
0
Mamaodonley :
@Chelsea Ryan
2025-07-14 03:25:26
0
cristinarae :
This is freaky. This is my boyfriend to the tee!!
2025-07-06 03:12:33
0
Trysarahtops1 :
He has thrown himself into gaming 24/7. He’ll never have to feel missing me after he discarded me
2025-06-06 23:10:32
58
user57278165638 :
I love/hate you, because your truths cut soo deep it takes me at least a week to be ready to accept it, until I see your next post❤️👌👌👌💯
2025-06-02 16:25:57
27
plants :
My bf just goes to sleep to avoid me
2025-06-06 21:47:23
15
Evolving Eve :
or serial dating just for the chase but never commitment 🤪
2025-06-06 22:31:40
15
bluemoon :
Me, a woman, with over a thousand hours in stardew valley 🫥
2025-06-06 17:58:26
13
Banana :
My avoidant ex was a binge drinker
2025-06-03 05:59:03
11
Syllabub :
I do these as an avoidant woman. You tend to isolate as an avoidant. It’s tough for men too
2025-06-06 18:09:39
6
Craig Mccullagh🇮🇱gen x :
I was in Angola for 3 years seen things people would not want to see but I'm hanging on never drink on shabbat only in the week
2025-06-02 17:46:55
6
_ensoaesthetics :
Yes this is him all over 🥺
2025-06-03 15:54:18
5
adoradite :
i wish i knew this 4 years ago
2025-06-03 11:40:25
5
BunBunChuu :
..gaming and streaming saying he wants to make it a career. I was neglected emotionally when I started to press for more he cracked and basically broke up saying he was unhappy and felt unheard..
2025-06-08 04:08:06
4
JustdooIt :
Crypto ngl 😳
2025-06-02 21:43:21
3
donners78 :
how on earth is stock and crypto trading an avoidant behaviour ? Your trying to make money to have a better life, period that’s it
2025-06-02 17:15:02
3
Elepù :
Once he also said 'didn't you notice that when I don't drink at least some beer, I am unable to control my rage?'
2025-06-03 16:47:47
2
SOLOMON JOHN :
are you going to do a series on how to help please?
2025-06-03 10:00:16
2
HDSCreations :
S3x addiction?
2025-06-03 20:11:36
2
marina_f29 :
💯💯💯
2025-06-03 09:54:39
2
Michael Dunworth :
Bullseye - You are constantly spot on! It’s insanely impressive! 😂
2025-06-03 07:58:52
2
_arpsie :
Stock/ Crypto trading 😂
2025-06-03 07:51:32
2
Sofi :
everyone should see this my husband is one my best friend is 2 and my cousin and uncle are all 3...
2025-06-03 21:15:11
1
kat :
@ms Jake 3/3
2025-06-09 05:34:54
1
sun9973 :
The gaming one isn't always true.
2025-06-06 16:16:41
1
Jadyn McManis :
He’s created a life in gta 6 rp and I swear he prefers to live in that life then he does living in this one with me. It honestly sucks.
2025-07-15 04:06:58
1
rachmbel :
🌽🌽🌽
2025-06-07 04:48:51
1
Chadi :
Described my ex
2025-06-07 05:08:02
1
alabam613 :
I dated 2 FA women last year, one was an alcoholic, the other used to abuse alcohol and weed, now she’s transitioned to being a workaholic. She works 80-100 hours 7 days a week at two jobs
2025-06-03 00:57:59
1
Lionel Hutz :
I drink while I game and watch the crypto market on my second monitor… I’m cooked 😂😂
2025-06-03 07:42:43
1
Journey :
What about addiction to work?
2025-06-04 15:31:42
1
Grey Bear Jewellery :
And what do we do with the avoidant stock trading. It’s used to ignore any future conversation (8 years in)
2025-06-03 20:59:59
1
📖pepsireads :
My mother actually 😂
2025-06-03 19:40:30
1
Tamara Dassonville :
1. ✅️2. ✅️3. ✅️
2025-06-03 19:34:27
1
Elepù :
the One I dealt with, was a football coach, coaching and drinking moderate alcohol and energy drinks were the only things that really seemed to be interesting to him
2025-06-03 16:46:42
1
amme :
what does avoidant mean?
2025-06-03 15:49:24
1
Herding Cats :
Sex addiction? But with no emotional connection. Cause that's my husband. I even opened the relationship for him cause I can handle it
2025-07-14 01:32:38
0
tattedvxn :
he's deff number 2
2025-07-14 07:40:26
0
DrunkinGnome :
Dang I really feel called out...even by comments
2025-07-14 15:39:54
0
DangerousCrves :
gamer, heavy THC use and polyamorous- that sums it up.
2025-06-28 12:21:05
0
Rose Jordan | UGC Creator :
Did this post just tell me I’m a man
2025-07-14 09:58:24
0
liveletliv_107 :
He did all three💀
2025-07-14 14:21:00
0
KatieeeGail :
LOL. Wow, it’s my ex in a nutshell. Add in verbal abuse though. And serial cheating. Sometimes with minors.
2025-07-14 14:14:24
0
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