I feel like the older we get, the closer having kids seems and turns out none of us really want it or feel ready right now. It’s the biggest sacrifice us. Barely changes a man’s body/career/life.
2025-06-04 19:34:01
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Amy Campbell :
Wanted nothing more my whole life than to be a mom! Something changed and I said nope not yet. I’m 37 and that feeling hasn’t gone away!
2025-06-04 18:07:48
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Marissa Diana :
Thank you Alex! As someone who isn’t ready either, it’s annoying that people automatically assume you’re having fertility issues. I’ve heard sooo many rumors about myself LOL. 🙄
2025-06-04 18:27:09
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Rockinrollacorolla :
It’s refreshing to finally see a generation questioning if we truly want children. I feel like I’m not alone anymore because it’s so normal to want to live a life doing exactly what I want like traveling or focusing on my career, not raising children
2025-06-05 05:24:22
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Lauren Rose1040 :
Can we get Paige desorbo on this podcast?!
2025-06-04 18:31:54
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Selena Nikki :
I already watched the full episode I’m proud of you
2025-06-04 18:01:36
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Danielle Kyle :
If the main reason you don’t want to have a child right now is your career and the anxiety of the thought of trying to do it all, I would tell you this: don’t let a temporary situation/circumstance prevent you from living out the dream of becoming a parent and having a child. Us women figure out how to navigate having a career and kids. We just do it. It can also help to have a year that u live out as ur last hurrah without kids- this made me feel so ready!
2025-06-04 21:02:54
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kort10kneee :
I love this new generation of women realizing having children isn’t the end goal of life
2025-06-05 15:00:20
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Cecy 🩶 :
It’s okay to wait. I’m almost 34 and I’ve decided I don’t want kids. I kept making excuses to why I was waiting, but now I’m like no thanks.
2025-06-04 18:37:55
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Christina D :
I just had my third at 40. Didn’t meet my husband until I was 29 and didn’t start popping out the kids until I was 34. You’ll figure it out, girl! 💕
2025-06-04 19:49:50
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Sarah 🐿️ :
I also thought I wanted kids. We tried for a few months. Then I realized I didn't want any, but everyone around me was having them and that might influenced me.
2025-06-04 18:20:07
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flav0r_flav :
Girllly same I went off BCP for my 30th birthday always planned for 30 and babies. My entire life that was the plan. Same thing going off BCP HORRIBLE. I’ve been married 7 years… 32… now completely unsure about kids
2025-06-04 19:20:56
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sunnbutterr :
You have time! (But you COULD freeze eggs now and have healthier eggs, it’s like a month or two long process, and only 10 days where you have to be near your doctor). I regret not harvesting 10 years ago. (Going through IVF now)
2025-06-04 18:54:28
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Tonspon65 :
Had my baby at 36. There’s time. Only bring a child in when you’re ready and excited that’s the best way to take on motherhood. Fully, aware and onboard and without fomo. You’ll go through enough changes than need to also deal w the resent of taking on things before your time - not fair to anyone.
2025-06-04 19:11:18
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kmart1351 :
54 and no kids, not for everyone but its a great life. You will always feel the “what if” though and you will have friends that have families that will no longer hang around but overall its been a good decision. If you want a full busy household, its jot for you.
2025-06-04 18:31:55
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ethereal voyager :
Had my baby at 34 last year and it was amazing, wait as long as you want to
2025-06-04 18:37:48
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Shelby Copans :
love you always, I feel like we've grown together. as you've gotten older so have I! love what your show has become
2025-06-04 17:51:49
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Lizzy Hodgins :
This is SUCH an important conversation. We are the generation that really is the first to question if it’s right for them. I’ve lost so much joy in the last 2 years because of not feeling ready / questioning if it’s right for us. That joy has been lost by the expectation being placed HEAVILY on me by others. I hate it.
2025-06-05 01:09:53
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kivnn :
Wait why am I first
2025-06-04 17:50:43
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Ana Cristina🫀 :
Proud of you ✨✨ love tour podcast ❤️
2025-06-04 18:01:13
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T :
So listen when you want the test to be positive then you want a child lol I did want a child and I turned 32 and then we said let's try and see and when I got a negative and I cried I knew wow actually I want this now I'm like idk if I want another and I don't want to be pregnant.
2025-06-04 19:10:38
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Amy Campbell :
This isn’t talked about enough! I feel like people go into have kids without giving it much thought. It’s just the next step in life. You get married. You have kids. People aren’t really thinking about if they truly want them. Have they thought about what if their kid has health issue or has profound autism if they are prepared for that?!
2025-06-04 21:21:53
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Catalina :
I'm 25. I dont want kids, I hope that feeling doesnt change, but Im awate it might. I just want to have kids if I'm 100% sure. We'll see.
2025-06-04 22:52:25
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Christi 🇨🇦 :
Girl you got time! My mom had me at 35 and that’s totally fine
2025-06-04 20:00:59
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a username913 :
Wishing you the best 🩷 I’ve been a fan since the beginning and it’s amazing to see how much you’ve grown into a beautiful soul 🥰
2025-06-04 17:53:27
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