Depends on who you’re talking to, some people will interrupt you if you don’t fill that pause. They’ll literally think you’re done talking
2025-06-05 21:41:06
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Minkailu Sulaiman Thorlie :
The power of THE PAUSE 😊
2025-06-05 07:50:06
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knucks :
it seems to me when I pause. people tend to interpret.
2025-06-05 23:23:40
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Daniel 🐲🪽 :
Nobody is actually listening, they wait untill it's their turn to speak instead if answering in what I just said, a pause is an invite for them therefore I learnt usung filler words to communicate "hey im still talking and not finished yet". How to deal with such ppl?
2025-06-09 08:46:53
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CALL_ME_V :
as a youth I am very happy to learn from u, especially due to the fact it boosts my introversion and creating new adaptation
2025-07-02 11:39:49
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itsjustjulz :
Why did I get that? My ADHD loves to fill every gap 😂
2025-06-13 12:58:51
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jonathan :
my dad saying "DING" when my sister developed a valley girl style "um" everytime she said. Mean, but she stopped quickly.
2025-06-05 12:39:00
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Twann | New Dad :
SO TRUE!!!! I needed to hear this!
2025-06-06 16:10:16
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Siemone :
I speak the second way because I’m afraid someone’s going to cut me off before I’ve finished speaking.
2025-06-05 23:29:19
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Carter Naughton :
Also: anxiety
2025-07-11 20:42:26
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twistofwhimsy :
I mean that's fine for presenting but in conversation or professional meetings, that pause hands the floor to someone else who is waiting for you to take a breath to break in.
2025-06-08 17:28:58
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krtherapist44 :
Fact, time to process
2025-06-06 13:23:36
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2025-06-05 07:46:40
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Laura Van Den Hurk :
Is this the same for people with learning disabilities like speech apraxia?
2025-06-21 00:52:23
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Casey 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🇺🇦 :
I love your content but I think the focus on our clearly natural tendency to do the "ums, etc" is to prominent. We spend so much time worrying about saying "um", some of us will never speak up.
2025-06-17 04:52:22
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Alexx :
exactly 💯💯💯💯
2025-06-06 05:29:16
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@ZII :
or when a person drags the word while they think
2025-07-23 17:18:01
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Kasey Lynch :
Definitely something I need to practice more
2025-06-06 12:56:42
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YouTube@Bunnyandbeyond vanlife :
I actually processed things better when you speak without pausing😳
2025-06-05 16:09:35
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Mis Norms :
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2026-03-14 09:27:33
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r.ezati :
😁
2025-06-10 13:55:22
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aitu :
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2026-01-04 16:58:11
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2025-06-08 18:11:23
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2025-06-25 07:51:29
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