@travisambrosecoach: Your capacity to love deeply is not a weakness. It’s a strength. Avoidants do need love. They need safety. They need patience. But you cannot love them into healing. You cannot carry the relationship for both of you. And the moment your love requires you to disappear… it stops being love. It becomes self-abandonment. Loving detachment isn’t cold. It isn’t a wall. It’s choosing to stay connected to yourself, even if they can’t meet you yet. You don’t have to stop loving them. But you do need to start loving you. If this post hit something tender and you’re ready to stop losing yourself trying to hold it all together let’s look at what’s really going on 👁️ In a ReWire Clarity Session, we’ll map your patterns, get clear on what’s yours (and what’s not), and help you move forward with self-trust whether that means staying, letting go, or redefining the relationship entirely. You can schedule using my link in bio 🤲 . . . . . #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #codependency #secureattachment #healthyrelationship
Wait, this is going to sound weird but you sound exactly like how my ChatGPT sounds in my head and now I see it as you lmfaooo
2025-06-05 20:39:12
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Feinery :
@Matilda 🤍
2025-06-07 12:21:41
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Steven W :
been here.. 3 years , 8 months.. and i couldn't shrink anymore.. I ask for boundaries and never got them.. I had chest pains.. less than 3 hours of sleep.. and I was depressed.. I miss her..but breaking up was the best thing we could do
2025-06-11 22:38:55
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Margaret Ellis :
You cann’t fix others, we are all responsible for ourselves. We can support, but ultimately we all have to do the hardest work ourselves
2025-06-06 13:12:14
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