Yes I can explain that… I cannot go to funerals or huge triggering emotions excitement. Avoidants run or pull away during big moments because deep emotions feel overwhelming.. These events trigger vulnerability, and their nervous system sees that as danger, not connection. It triggers deep overwhelm, discomfort, or even shame. These events demand emotional presence.
2025-06-06 08:36:58
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Lettyedwards :
Yes!!! 💯 They can’t stand the achievement isn’t them they get very jealous & envious it’s very much narcissistic traits. You just don’t get it at the time but once you detach from them you see it all. Xmas birthdays etc always ruined by his big ego moodiness. He hated Xmas etc so miserable.
2025-06-06 08:19:22
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lizreils :
He avoided me on holidays . Never remembered my birthday.. avoided my posts. Eventually posted me on his page but would then take it down: never wanted to go to events together.but is on FB following new women every day
2025-06-06 11:12:23
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Allibum :
Holy jeez this man is more on point that a dart that landed in bullseye 🎯
2025-06-06 08:41:12
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Stacy Hayden Gonzalez :
I got a job offer today, he was first one I told… “cool, you called me at a bad time I’ll call you back.” You know he didn’t. But it’s because the better off you are the more they think they’re not good enough or you don’t need them.
2025-06-06 07:07:46
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nanni3 :
their ego gets in the way...
2025-06-06 07:01:40
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Kitty 🌸 :
Omg spot on. He neverrr liked my stuff it was so rare. wtf is up with that
2025-06-07 06:42:49
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Its_Arya_joy_ :
They always have insecurities😒
2025-06-07 18:05:39
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Kai Pompey :
Bro this was literally her! When I was making friends in the music Industry, “she wasn’t happy she literally said don’t forget me when you level up” then looked all sad
2025-06-08 08:17:00
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Vee :
Idk about this one bc they def do this with a rebound
2025-06-08 00:07:37
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Cosmin :
Many avoidants are narcissists
2025-06-09 07:11:48
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theembodimentcoach :
Yooo never wanna let you shine . I remember skating in front of him the first time I love to skate he never was admired by my fav hobby . Or the time when I had a mixtape release and he came but played the background didn’t bug me up as if we wasn’t hunching . On my bday in April he was gone when it turned 12am smh I know better now
2025-06-06 06:50:26
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Securely Attached with Nadine :
I appreciate the work you, and I always find much value in your insights.
Just one small note - this particular behavior sounds more like something you would associate with narcissistic wounding than avoidant attachment. Of course, there can be overlap, but not every avoidant is wired that way.
Thanks for all you share - your content really helps a lot of people. ✨
2025-06-06 08:43:15
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Celeste :
On my birthday
2025-06-06 13:57:01
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Sonia :
After a big surgery 🥺💔
2025-06-06 08:21:16
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rachel :
A friend’s boyfriend broke up with her on her graduation day, just before the ceremony. Very strategic
2025-06-06 11:51:36
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Childishgarbanzo :
Yup, was discarded on the way back to the hospital post surgery complication
2025-06-06 07:03:59
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TribeOfYahudah ❤️✊🏾✊🏾 :
& that's facts! 💯💯💯
2025-06-06 19:12:36
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Thecalipali🇵🇸 :
he dumped me.days b4 Valentines 😹😹
2025-06-08 19:29:15
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Sana :
True
2025-06-12 03:25:14
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Francisco D'Anconia :
this never happened to me. maybe what you're talking about is more for a dismissive avoid? My FA was always supportive except in as much as she slept all weekend every weekend for about 2 years and couldn't make it to any of my functions, but that doesn't sound at all like what you're talking about.
2025-06-07 20:20:15
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Tony :
His is spot on. Constantly discarded right before or even hours before it’s supposed to go down. 2 years of crazy.
2025-06-11 01:59:26
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theembodimentcoach :
And the social media thing omgggg and yes they dad died and he went ghost then his ex popped up pregnant and I stayed I can’t believe this shit lol 😭😭
2025-06-06 06:51:14
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