@bayavoce: The secret isn't never getting triggered. It's knowing how to interrupt the spiral before it eats your entire relationship alive. Ten minutes. That's the magic number we stumbled on by accident during one of our epic meltdowns. Not ten minutes to craft the perfect comeback or mentally rehearse your victory speech. Ten minutes to let your nervous system remember it's not actually under siege. Here's the thing about rage: it makes terrible decisions but excellent theater. Your body is flooded with chemicals that are convinced this fight is life or death, when really it's about who forgot to buy coffee. Those ten minutes let the storm pass through you instead of becoming you. The real shift happens when you return not to win but to understand. When you choose understanding over being understood, you remember that you actually have to sleep next to this person tonight, and when one person wins, you both lose. It's not about perfect calm, it's about being willing to soften just enough to stay in the room together. That's where repair lives. #relationships #communication #healing

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Tuesday 10 June 2025 02:33:56 GMT