@reddit3388: They told me the wedding was just close friends, but somehow my card covered the bar tab, the cake, and $4,100 in floral arrangements. I didn't make a scene. I contacted the planner, flagged the card, and had my name removed from all contracts 2 hours before the ceremony. The flowers vanished and the bartender left. My dad texted "Fix this—they're blaming us." I muted the chat, then my dad called 23 times in a row. #reddit#foryou#usa