@dr..angelica.shie: #Empathy #defensiveness #habits #Relationship

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toni_lorraine
lanceytl :
I think there's a big difference between "ugh, I know, me too" and being like "you're tired?! I got like 4 hours last night" which is a thing
2025-06-11 22:24:47
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user73827365
user73827365 :
“same i didn’t sleep well either, what kept you up?”
2025-06-12 00:26:09
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roblb17
Rob :
“oh me too dude. wanna nap?”
2025-06-12 02:19:34
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b.a.m.bina
Bambina :
This annoys me so much!!! Any time I am tired, sick, depressed, etc. he magically is as well
2025-06-11 17:49:03
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natural.beauty9614
beauty 🥰 :
my friend started setting serious boundaries after reading The Woman’s Hidden Edge by Emma Pierce. like… no hesitation.
2025-06-13 12:36:50
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kripsten4
kripsten4 :
I am relieved if the other says they are tired too. Then i know it is ok for me to be tired.
2025-06-11 17:39:16
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1701theo
Theodore :
I’m neurodivergent and share my experience to show I can relate, not as a pissing contest. My gf is also neurodivergent so she gets it. I might say something like “ugh mood, I didn’t sleep all night, that really sucks that x woke you”
2025-06-11 20:58:53
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tomzzzzzzzzz
Thomas Wells :
just be tired together? a pause sounds weird, how long does this pause need to be? ' I'm tired to, what's made you tired? ' seems fine to me
2025-06-11 21:18:06
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tommooo01
tommooo01 :
Always go one better “I had a worse sleep than you”
2025-06-13 13:53:40
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what_a_day1
Em :
I HATE the misery competition!!! I have chronic pain, all the time. When it’s ESPECIALLY bad I mention it and it’s ALWAYS “oh yeah I’m sooooo achey too!” 🙃🙃🙃🙃
2025-06-11 20:16:40
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flowergirlsmiles
flower :
Empathy first, then share, then ask questions about them.
2025-06-12 15:38:38
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albalaricoque
🪩Ricoque🪩 :
if I am also tired I go "ugh, me too, I also slept badly today. how about a little nap together?" if I slept well I go "oh no I'm so sorry, wanna chill today instead of going out?"
2025-06-11 20:33:50
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legallylizzy
LegallyLizzy :
Depends on the time of the month 😂😂😂
2025-06-11 16:50:20
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p.o.em_esthetics
Dee :
I say me too, I don’t pause
2025-06-11 16:04:12
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linzytap
LaDy LiNzY :
I am usually the one to ask how was your sleep. It's a full communication.
2025-06-11 16:39:41
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indicaerica
✨️Erica✨️ :
yo fr were both allowed to be tired it's not a competition
2025-06-12 03:29:46
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nawalbaswedan
Nawal :
i think the best reply is "wanna nap together?"
2025-06-12 20:44:54
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hannahniezen
hannahniezen :
‘Wow, same. But what made you tired’. I just relate to them and then hear them out
2025-06-12 00:49:56
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araphena
Araphena🇺🇸🇸🇪 :
I do both: I do a feeling validation, share my experience, and ask what happened. I am Audhd.
2025-06-11 17:27:27
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feisty.raccoon
trashedpanda🇨🇦 :
I have ADHD so I immediately want to relate by saying "me too". I wish I could "naturally" pause to let them have space but it doesn't always happen. working on it.
2025-06-12 13:50:01
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its_a_new_day3
A.N.R :
we both share in the exhaustion and then laugh and say fuq work lol
2025-06-11 17:43:17
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pastelrecordstore
DJ MizzusD :
usually something like "omg me too twinsies!"
2025-06-12 03:54:54
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cakey_pancakes
Pancake<3 :
I dont say 'well, Im really tired too' but I like to say 'right? Im also very tired' because instead of shifting the attention to you, it makes their problem seem understood.
2025-06-11 22:51:26
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alt.rat.king2
Ash :
“Oh man same. Wanna go take a nap?”
2025-06-22 04:59:34
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fr3shtoast
Toast :
I try to do this with everyone I talk to cuz I noticed myself trying to “relate” to them but it looked like I was making it about me. It’s honestly exhausting especially for ppl who won’t do it for u
2025-06-13 02:40:05
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