Dusty Thunder
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Wednesday 11 June 2025 17:17:50 GMT
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TheMoistQueen®️ :
not about the alcohol, no. but not telling your husband?? YES
2025-06-11 17:30:48
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Emily DeHoff :
YTA for not telling the husband. Everything else, no.
2025-06-11 17:32:13
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Just Me :
Tell me the families are Mormon & the wedding was in Utah without telling me.
2025-08-18 15:30:11
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LettersOfLoveDesigns :
NTA
2025-06-11 18:41:22
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Chelsie Hill :
Who knows 300 people that they'd want to invite to a wedding?
2025-06-11 19:43:19
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JSams :
I watch cassie wedding planner tiktoks so I wonder if they broke contract with venue location
2025-06-11 19:02:31
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DJ :
The venue could lose their license, this is wrong on so many levels 😡
2025-06-11 19:58:01
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VioletsAreBlue 🇦🇺 :
$5 a drink and made 2K profit. 75 people who knew. That’s 400 drinks even before adding the cost of the alcohol and bartender. So most likely more like 500 drinks…. So either more than 75 knew and went to buy booze or she has some big drinking friends!
2025-06-18 22:55:21
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Candi :
I love this. Very romantic
2025-08-11 13:48:03
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alpacadiva :
Your wedding. Your decision. But hubby should have been in on it. OP - you guys need to stand up to the family. Better sooner than later!
2025-06-11 17:52:51
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kangkhitadesai :
Wdym she took the tips? Was she serving?
2025-06-11 19:00:13
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Victoria Flewallen :
not their wedding, not their money, the parents get no say. keeping it a secret from their husband though? 🚩
2025-06-11 17:33:49
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Self Love ✨️ :
she made it clear that the secrecy of it all wouldve stressed the husband out and made him say no. hes clearly an honest man(not a bad thing) so she was protecting him. its like lying abt your proposal I can't tell you before but I can certainly tell you after
2025-06-11 17:34:27
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Son Punnett :
like someone told me, its easier to ask for forgiveness than permission which fits op. she will constantly do this. its legit an abuse thing
2025-06-15 05:27:44
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malench98 :
Then the mil and mother should of offered them $$$ … and op should of told the husband
2025-06-11 17:26:33
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stevie_164 :
Wedding speak easy, love that idea. I can understand why she didn't tell her husband. She saved him the stress of having to lie. She could have told him once the reception started, because by that point he didn't have to lie.
2025-06-12 04:46:31
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Ashley :
No. my wedding was 'dry', too, for the religious aspects of my parents, not for my husband and I. His side offered, my parents refused, his side BOYB and my BIL did a pseudo bartend, and made "tips" that he gave to my hubby at the end of the night. my parents found out years later, and wanted me to be mad about it. I told them I was mad, because I was threatened to not get the wedding I wanted, if I had wanted alcohol to be there, and I was glad that (while I got none) they didn't get their way. It was our wedding, not their's, tough shit, good for OP.
2025-06-17 16:48:28
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Faith Nthabiseng :
You guys are not factoring in culture here.... in other cultures the parents opinion and views are honored
2025-06-12 10:17:40
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RockinRobynLJ :
I’m not a drinker and neither is most of my family. My daughter is having a wine tasting and a bar with signature drinks. It’s her wedding and she can do whatever she wants. Don’t like it? Don’t drink it. ❤️
2025-06-17 13:35:29
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Samantha Gilbertson :
NTA. technically she didn't lie. it was dry for those who didn't believe in drinking. husband should have been made away but this way only op got into trouble for it and not him
2025-06-11 18:37:14
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hells_angel41 :
not telling the husband gives him plausible deniability. 😂😂😂 she probably decided if the families found out, he would not get the blow back from his parents
2025-06-14 00:13:33
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delaneydeckerr1 :
My dad told me when I start planning my wedding he’ll pitch in IF his friends and his family have invites AND he gets a say in the planning…..I told him I’ll fund it myself as I’m not giving ANY decision making to anyone who’s not me or my fiancée 🤣 not your wedding, you don’t get a say. I don’t care if you helped financially or not
2025-08-15 15:45:55
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Alexandria :
people wanting guests to pay to help the cost of their wedding is wild!
2025-06-11 21:59:45
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Heidsvamp :
Okay, so husband may have said no. But tell him really close to the time. He might have wanted a drink as well. And that way it’s too late to change it. I don’t know if that’s the right approach but he definitely should’ve known. But saying no to keep the peace… The family I’m paying for it. Oh I’m so torn about this. They should’ve told him. I just don’t know when. Personally I think it’s a great idea and kind of cute. But he should’ve been made aware. But then he also needs a stand up and say hey it’s our wedding. And we aren’t fully in the culture. Which I don’t think they are based on the assumption there is alcohol there.
2025-06-23 08:28:03
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Dianeerc :
Why is no one pointing out this was likely completely illegal for selling alcohol? Assuming she doesn’t have a license to sell alcohol, of course, which is completely different than a license to serve at such an event.
2025-06-11 22:41:22
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