@iambelamarie: Yes you read that right. When we started dating, I told him he had 2 years to propose. On our 2-year anniversary—after he flew me out to Catalina, surprised me with a suite and a beautiful boat around the island to celebrate “our love,” and planned a beautiful long weekend trip—he did not propose. So I broke up with him and ended our relationship. THANK GOD I did not marry that man. There were so many reasons I should have left prior, but I decided to stay—and this was the tipping point. I’m blessed every day that this man is no longer in my life, and I’m proud of myself for sticking by my gut and what I told him on our first date. Ladies, time is not a love language. If you have big dreams and goals that require a male counterpart—like marriage and a family—I wholeheartedly believe you should not waste more time than necessary on the WRONG PERSON. After two years of being together, he was still uncertain about marrying me … then I wasn’t going to wait around to change his mind, beg for him to help me achieve my goals, or work harder out of this idea that I needed to “prove my worth.” He didn’t make a move. So I did—I left. Consistency without commitment is just convenience. And I’m around for a man that commits. Not a boy that wants to waste my time. #f#fypw#womend#datingadvices#selfrespectr#relatableb#belamariew#womand#datings#selfwortht#toxict#toxicrelationships#situationshiptoxicpeople

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Wednesday 11 June 2025 17:21:22 GMT