The point where it says “ if I don’t do it’ll all fall apart” that’s also your anxiety. Do you know for a fact it will? Or is that what you’re scared off. Anxious attachment constantly trying to “fix” us or fix an issue for us. Pushes us away and makes us feel unwanted
2025-06-12 14:29:27
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Coco Pacha🍒 :
Wish I knew this years ago, it’s knowing when to walk away
2025-06-11 19:22:24
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Andrea_in_TX :
If they are being ‘avoidant’ they don’t care about you.
2025-06-13 13:42:58
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TravelsWithTrolls :
I wish I knew this so much earlier
2025-06-14 17:23:45
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mr.austin_himself :
Thank you for your videos
2025-06-24 08:29:54
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imPRESSiON nails Ltd :
This
2025-07-08 23:24:27
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Minnie Skippleton :
I’m always interested to know, would an avoidant behave this way if they really liked a person?
2025-06-26 18:57:04
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jordanohyeah :
i feel so targeted holy moly
2025-07-31 21:51:30
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IdahoMAGAmom🇺🇸❤️ :
I love this perspective!
2025-08-04 05:08:12
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BoyAboutTown91 :
yep until you realise your being conditioned and reduced to the self doubt and reinvestigating the work or trauma that you have already done when they havent! i have recently put a stop to it no more effort no more pain when i was getting nothing back!
2025-06-11 23:57:17
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MJ 📚 :
We weren’t together but I texted him asking if we were good cause the vibes felt weird and he didn’t respond for two days. And I pulled away. Was that wrong if he’s avoidant? I feel bad but I deserve better
2025-07-05 02:01:59
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n8tive_cutie :
He's always giving me terms and conditions to love him. I got tired
2025-06-24 00:51:07
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Mikeg1184 :
but then they feel as if they are walking on eggshells also
2025-08-05 13:02:31
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ali :
@mando5oh
2025-06-11 20:26:35
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😁😁😁
2025-06-21 03:19:08
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Mike maples :
💀💀💀
2025-06-13 00:16:21
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Colski :
Im about 5 weeks into a break. my gf has come back when she has recharged, but its days. But im in therapy now and trying to change things and work on me. If she's there great.. if not.. its okay. Im getting stronger without her.
2025-06-11 20:02:43
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Ivy Mejia :
Thank you, I really needed this. He has such pretty words but no actual follow up. I’ve worked so hard on my anxious attachment and he brings me right back to square one.
2025-07-07 10:47:49
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H🍒 :
I needed to hear this
2025-08-04 21:29:02
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SamScents :
😍😍😍
2025-06-16 06:44:50
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Ngonidzashe :
❤❤❤
2025-11-07 09:41:27
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