@dearcaitlynn: i’ve never been in love before #philosophy #philosophytiktok #literature #literaturetiktok #freud #lacan #philosophytok #classicliterature #bookrecs #literaturetok #classiclit #classiclittok #BookRecommendations #BookTok
“The fantasy is safer than the person” that’s so true
2025-06-11 22:19:08
3821
the.art.of.steve.krell :
"in their absence, they become perfect snd we become tragic" ✨ so well put
2025-06-13 13:42:48
630
. :
I don't miss "the now him" I miss the version of him that I met in start
2025-06-13 20:48:41
749
Olivia :
This really resonated with me. It reminds me of a video I watched where a guy described grief as not just losing someone, but losing that part of you that only they could bring out. That only you felt being witnessed by them.
2025-06-12 04:59:47
421
SNOW SOS :
“They are very Devotional. rituals that we preforme when we don’t know what to do with the love inside of our bodies” I’ve never heard someone describe it in a way where I feel understood like that. Have to look up Lacan now
2025-06-11 22:31:48
177
user546533333366 :
This is the best outlook I have heard on heartbreak ever. The devotion to the love left really moved me.
2025-06-12 03:33:40
58
_n.a.y.a.a_aa :
“We say we want love but it’s the ache we are chasing “ felt that
2025-06-12 16:19:59
98
graveyrdwoman :
This is very well spoken and couldn’t agree more
2025-06-11 22:43:34
79
FRANCK :
I find it so interesting that you state that you’ve never been in love before meanwhile you’re able to articulate the philosophy behind absence and ache
2025-06-16 05:31:13
73
jpeg.gfl :
Very serendipitous that I stumbled across this vid. I was recently having a conversation with my best friend about this and I mentioned the same thing- about it being a fantasy that crumbles once things start getting too reciprocal, too “real”. I relate so much to this feeling of wanting to stay in a state of longing and yearning, it makes me feel alive and electric. It’s a pattern I’ve just noticed and I have never had the right words to describe to others so thank you for putting it in such beautiful, thoughtful words. 🤍
2025-06-12 02:41:22
88
BG :
"We almost became whole in their presence". I recently became aware that my need for a relationship seems to have partly been propelled by a sense that without a relationship, I am somehow "incomplete". what is that "wholeness"? Is this not a reflection of the innate need to be seen so as to be a self?
2025-06-19 20:22:53
36
uny :
How do I repost a whole account
2025-07-04 06:17:50
35
Ponco Maulana :
i feel personally attacked
2025-06-12 13:56:45
34
rashradio :
“That part of us is orphaned & unheld” I was not ready
2025-06-16 09:35:14
44
Rotebick :
"we say that we want love but so often is the ache that we're chasing"... brutal
2025-06-12 20:03:12
18
chanellikethegirl :
I feel smarter listening to this
2025-07-04 21:37:38
15
21 :
timing is crazy
2025-06-21 06:11:21
9
Ella :
This resonated with me very deeply. I think the best step to healing is to understand yourself and your behaviour, and this was very helpful for me. ❤️
2025-06-11 23:11:39
23
Liz! :
I just found your videos but you are honestly like therapy😭❤️
2025-06-20 13:04:30
14
RFD :
Complex emotions simply stated. Thank you.
2025-06-13 01:55:44
15
Amal <<33 :
u need a podcast twin
2025-06-21 12:04:26
9
Ruebendash :
"the measure of love is loss"-Jeanette Winterson's (I like that idea in Written on the Body)
2025-06-12 04:11:49
14
Petal-7.31.25 🫧 :
This just made me feel so bad for the way I treated him
2025-06-11 23:31:04
34
mulhollanddrivemommy :
Wow. This is so interesting and so very true, such a good perspective. And while no one wants pain and almost always feeling this way over someone eventually becomes torturous, I think there is a part of me that finds beauty and comfort in suffering and longing. I find myself the most excited to live when I am becoming my desire, it fuels my art and my writing and everything that I love to do. Without infactuation I become passionless and it pains me worse that longing for the things I cannot have. Definitely working on that because its not healthy lol but it is a reality
2025-06-22 14:25:46
8
To see more videos from user @dearcaitlynn, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.